What does the phrase, “Falling In Love” mean?

: What does the phrase, “Falling In Love” mean?
Correct me if I’m wrong but I thought that love was a choice and not something you fall in to. If you Fall in you could Fall out right? But making a choice to love someone for the sake of love itself should past the test of time right?

Answers and Views:

Answer by The Newbie
Well I think ture love is a commitment not just ” falling” in love.

Falling in love- a. To be sexually attracted to somone
b. To randomly be in a romantic relationship with someone you do not know.

Answer by Michael Oetgen
u r wrong hun. saying u can fall out of love is like saying u can fall out of a hole (a deep one) its nearly impossible. also a person can hate someone yet turn to start loveing them. also u can rarely choose love. its like a ninja sneaking up behind u. u never no wen it happens. im not saying someone cant stop loving someone im just saying itd take alot of time or for the person to do something horrible. a more commen way to fall in love is to spend time with a person and get to no them.

Answer by Jonathan
Well, falling in love with someone is definitely a real thing. When I fell in love with my fiance, I was dead set that God wanted me to stay single forever, and despite the fact that I was a stubborn jerk, I fell in love with her. Falling in love is realizing that a person is exactly what you want, exactly what you need, what you’ve always wanted and needed, and what you always will want and need. True love, unconditional love, is a choice, and when you truly fall in love with someone, the emotions bring about the choice. You want that person so bad, and you feel so many amazing things, that the only choice is to love them. Sometimes over the course of a long relationship, emotions can fluctuate because of stress and pressure and hormones and all sorts of things. In other words, if you’re heart is broken or you’re gong through the hardest times in your life, you may not feel all of the emotions you felt when you first fell in love with the person.

But it’s still there.

Even when your world’s falling apart, or if you’re mad at them or hurt by them, you still love them. That doesn’t change. You don’t stop loving a person you truly loved. Sadly, when people have issues in their relationships, they choose to be selfish and not choose love. They go with the statement, “I LOVED them.” But what they don’t understand, or choose to ignore, is that love has no past tense. A lot of things go into true love, and commitment and choice are a huge part. You have to be committed to make it work. But if you truly fell in love in the first place, you won’t fall out. Love never ends, and love never fails.

That’s what love is. 🙂