Should I let my fiancee watch a movie with men walking around with no clothes on?

J.P.: Should I let my fiancee watch a movie with men walking around with no clothes on?
Several movies I have heard lately have this in them. I DO NOT WANT MY FIANCEE SEEING THIS. She hasn’t watched anything but tonight she was talking about going to see some movie with her girlfriend. Should I wait and see what movie they want to see or should I just come and tell her she isn’t allowed to see these films?

Answers and Views:

Answer by Nowpower
You are pathetic.

Answer by Sweet Valley
its not like she personally knows the naked guys and who are you to tell her what she is “allowed” to see?

Answer by Higgy
Anyone that thinks he “lets his fiancee do” anything nowadays is in for a real surprise.

Answer by Carly R:)
I’m sure your husband knows what a penis is

he has one of his own

Answer by C. L. Richardson
You can’t control whether or not she sees that kind of movie. What you can control is how you respond to her seeing these movies. Does she know you don’t like it, and she doesn’t care? If that is the case then I would consider breaking off the relationship. You should be with someone who cares.

Answer by The_Doc_Man
If you are insecure enough that this bothers you, or if you have enough of a controlling nature to think you have the right to step in on her life this way, perhaps you need to revisit whether you are prepared to make the sacrifices required to be a good husband.

My wife and I have a rule: We can look at anything – but we draw the bright line in the sand at TOUCH. Let your lady see the movie and learn to live with it.

Answer by Allie Q
How about, shut your mouth and let your fiancee decide for herself. You’re pretty sick in the head if you think you have any right to tell another person what they are “allowed” to see.

Answer by Indigo Flame
You want to forbid/command your fiancee? That’s odd… poor girl, I don’t know why she would want to be with you…

Answer by Hail Naw!
You’re a control freak. Don’t scare your girlfriend off!

Answer by Lockheed the IshVarLan
I am a Christian, one of Jehovah’s Witnesses.

I know of at least one movie like this, that I won’t be going to see.

That said, I have NO power/right to tell ANY other adult they are not “allowed” to see the movie. While I won’t pay for someone to see the movies, or offer support/approval for it, unless they were my Child, I would have NO business telling them they can’t see it.

Answer by koko
That’s just pure jealousy on your part. Chill out. Does she not let you watch films with nudity?

Answer by hasse_john
It doesn’t sound like a good thing, and no one probably should see such a thing. However if she isn’t guided by the spirit of YAHOSHUA, your ‘not allowing’ it probably won’t help either.

Answer by David H
*yawn* Obvious clone troll is cloned and obvious. You can’t be the real Truth Seeker because I don’t have you blocked…..yet.

Answer by monkeybumpants
A man thinking he can tell a woman what to do?

PRICELESS

Answer by DOUGHBOY
It’s not about you “allowing” her to do anything. A person is going to do what they want to do regardless, but if she loves you, you sit down with her and let her know how you feel in a loving, upright, respectful way.

If she continues to want to watch naked men, etc., and the problem worsens, at least you’re not married to her to add to the statistics on divorce. You would have a decision to make now that she continues to lust after naked men. It may not be anything however, but your imagination.

I don’t know if you’re being completely honest or not so I cannot give you SOLID advice on the matter. I can only say that if you are telling the truth, it may be more than just naked men shown in a movie that she’s interested in. You have to sit down with her and ask so that you will know how to better gauge the situation.

Answer by Mary
Let and allowed? If my fiancee had used those words instead of asking me to only see those types of movies with him, I might not have gotten married! Chose your words and your battles carefully, your penis is not the only one in existence and I’m sure your fiancee already knows that, so seeing another one in a movie seems kind of harmless, don’t you think?!

Answer by [email protected]
Let it be her choice presently.

Answer by Bill C
Allowed? Who are you, her owner?

If this girl has a brain in her head, she won’t marry you.

Answer by Lesleigh
Wow. This IS the 21st century, so I don’t think you can tell her what movies to see at all. Or what books to read, what TV to watch…

Answer by QUILL
From what you write, I make certain assumptions as the basis for my answer to your question:

1) If you exercise such a degree of control over your fiancee that you are able to dictate what she is allowed or not allowed to watch, do, or think, then you are controlling and the best thing you can tell your fiancee is, “Goodbye, darling. Please keep the ring.”

2) Following her release from your sphere of control, you would be wise to find whether you can obtain professional assistance from mental health specialists to deal with your controlling personality and the anger that ensues when you are disobeyed.

QUILL

Answer by moryonder
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Answer by JamesH
Why would either of you want to go see a movie displaying men walking around unclothed?

Answer by Persephone
You do not own her. it is her choice. just because they are naked doesnt mean she is lusting after them. women dont get turned on by seeing namked men on screen really… its the men who see naked women on screen who get turned on, maybe thats why you’re worried. you’re worried she’ll have the same reaction you would have if you saw naked women.
if you tell her she isnt allowed to watch, you will just push her away, all because of your own insecurities.
just let it go.