Christopher H: How can I get my wife to try something different?
We are going away for a weekend, how can I get my wife to do something different and fun in the bed? I don’t want to hurt her feelings by asking, but things are getting kinda slow.
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Answer by St.Jeb
Try watchin porn together, suggest that whatever they are doing would be fun, she may go along with it.
Just be upfront and talk to her. Ask her if there is something different she would like to try. Make it as much about her pleasure as yours.Answer by USNVet
Heres what I did, I flipped the script! I said babe is there anything I can do to spice up the sex? Are you bored with me? Trust me it worked go get some hoorah!!!Answer by pastels c
dont ask.. just do them.. and make sure it’s funAnswer by Kimberly
Just ask!!!!! Let her know your getting kinda bored with the same stuff. It’s better to get it off your chest than to wish for a change.Answer by George McCasland – Dads Rights
Ask her in the morning.
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Medical studies show sex is best in the morning and it improves your health.
https://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/
The end of the day is a bad time for fun. Your body is at its lowest levels of energy and oxygen. Your immune system has been in active mode for at least 12 hours, and the temporary storage capacity of your brain is getting full. This is why it’s so important to get at least 8 hours of sleep, or 10 hours if under the age of 30 for males and 24 for females. That’s when you reach full maturity.
At night, during that period of time between when you go to sleep and start dreaming, your brain’s ability to absorb data is shut down and everything in temporary storage is transferred to permanent storage through the creation of chemical bonds, and synaptic connectors, as needed. While you are dreaming, the data is being categorized.
At night, your body washes out all the lactic acid that has built up in your muscles during the day, replacing it with oxygen.
At night, your immune system goes into limited standby mode to regenerate and repair injuries, such as sore and strained muscles.
At night, prior to the ages of full maturity, all growth and development takes place. Guys, this means that until age 30, if you are not getting the proper amount of sleep, you are not going to reach your full potential length with your tally whacker. That might be useful in the morning. And yes, that contributes to a guy’s woody.
When you wake up, provided you got a proper amount of sleep, your body and your brain are refreshed and ready for the day’s activities, so why not start out with a little morning exercise before getting out of bed?
I hope this answers your question.
Now, for you night workers, the reason we have so many health problems is that we don’t sleep under conditions that properly simulates night time. According to the AMA, you have to sleep in a room that is absolutely dark. Any light prevents the brain from entering into night time mode, triggering all the other processes. The room needs to be cool, as the top of the head puts off a lot of heat while transferring the data. Not doing this creates a gradual and life shorting condition. I know, as I sit in a nursing home with a bad heart.
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One final note
When I was younger, and my heart worker better, I was a morning love maker. My wife loved it, except for one problem. It was 4 AM and I was still sleeping, so I woke up in the morning with no memory of it. I got all the work and she got all the fun.
Plenty of lubeAnswer by T J
Surprise her with some KY and get ready for a mess.Answer by Eve bean
By getting your butt off the computer and paying more attention to her so that she feels she wants to even be with you.
I hope I did hurt your feelings….go, now!Answer by marrieduntouched
Tell her that you are going to be her sex slave and you’ll do anything that she wants!Answer by M
Tell her you love her, that you love being with her and that you think it might be nice to try some new things with her in bed. Assure her that while you completely enjoy her and are definitely turned on by her, you feel that the two of you may find an entirely different level of pleasure together. Don’t tell her if you’ve ever done anything with anyone else. She may feel a little insecure so just let her know you only want her forever. Hope your weekend is all you want it to be.Answer by uniquefashionista
Suggest what it is that you want and see what her reaction is. Also, take it slow and easy. Don’t force it. Tell her to also tell you some things that she would like to do so it doesn’t make her feel that she is the only one having to give. You might be surprised..it might be something that you wanted to do as well. When a woman feels that she can trust you and that she is safe with you, there’s nothing she won’t do to please you. Good Luck and Good Love (lol) !Answer by Annie
A couple drinks might help. I am not joking. If it is something you already know she hates, then NO. Otherwise go for it, she might like it.
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