How long is my wife going to be a wanker during the beginning of pregnancy?

The Bold Tortoise: How long is my wife going to be a wanker during the beginning of pregnancy?
My wife has had stomach and butt pains since becoming pregnant, this is accompanied by frequent fits of hysteria and wailing. How long should I expect to endure all of this. She says she has 12 weeks. I think it’s a hoax.

Please help a new father!

Answers and Views:

Answer by A M
Being pregnant makes a woman crazy due to the wild fluctuations in hormones. I think you should be more understanding…….after all YOU had a hand in this.

Answer by karen g
12 weeks is the beginning of the 2nd trimester or end of 1st. Stomach pains can be ligaments stretching and butt pains can be sciatica. Has she gone to the doctor. She didn’t want you with her? My husband went to every appointment. Have a little compassion. The sciatica lasted till the baby came. So have fun.

Answer by jimmysgrl
Just be by her side and help her through this she needs all the support she can get. You did help her get this far.

Answer by la_oracle
Nope, it’s not a hoax. Her feelings and mood fluctuations are a fact of being pregnant. Next time she visits her doctor, go with her and talk over your concerns with him/her. Also, be forewarned…this could last the entire pregnancy. Sorry, but that’s how it is. See these websites:

Answer by Senthia34F
No, she will act like this for around 40 weeks. The stomach/butt pains may go away but she will just get different pains somewhere else. Good luck!

Answer by Miki
Get used to it…Should be over after breastfeeding. Try to take it easy. It´s not so easy for her now to many hormones. Just stick by her and help her as much as possible

Answer by Tara R
UGH!!!! WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU MEN?? I WAS A DISASTER DURING MY PREGNANCY, AND YOU KNOW WHAT? I WAS BRINGING NEW LIFE INTO THE WORLD, I TOLD MY BOYFRIEND TO GET OVER IT!! HAVE SOME SYMPATHY FOR HER, THAT WILL HELP!!

Answer by Marks Wifee
She is going through a lot, both physically and emotionally .. just be there for her and be thankful you’re not the one having all the Ups and Downs from the hormones.
It’s not her fault!
good luck to the both of ya!
it’s well worth it in the end 🙂

Answer by Avery’s Mommy
As long as she wants!

Answer by luv4jesus
Oh my gosh you are too funny!!! You have at least 2 more months if not three. Pregnancy is really tough on a woman. Think about, she has another human being growing inside of her!! Then she has to squeeze it out that tiny opening!! Babies tend to lay on their mommys siatic nerve causing the butt and legs to have sharp pains. It can even make it hard to walk. Then, they also tend to kick the heck out of us and get right up under our ribs making it very hard to breathe. And on top of all that everything we eat pretty much goes to them and the flucuating hormones makes us burst into tears at the slightest thing. Just be patient and let her know you love her. The nicer you are the nicer she’ll be:) It will all be over soon.

Answer by Thomas A
Well guess what pal she will be like that for at least 40 weeks plus how ever long it takes her to heal so just be a good husband and stop thinking about yourself and use the brain god gave you and take care of your wife and make her pregnancy comfortable I have 3 children and 1 on the way i make sure my wife is pampeard because she can make worse after the baby. So do us good fathers and husbands a favor and get yourself neutered.

Answer by rgehron1031
first, i think you need to turn on an empathy switch here. instead of complaining, help her. rub her back, butt thighs, cater to her and see her through this emotional time. pregnancy can make a woman crazy, and if you are just ignoring her or making her feel worse, the situation is only going to get worse. if you think this is bad, wait for the labor

Answer by Toz W
haha! she wont…hormones are all over the place in pregnancy and a woman can also bleed for 10 weeks after giving birth so you’ll have to deal with her emotions being all over the place for just under a year!!!