How to make my wife amenable, who is highly short tempered and very egoistic?

aarvee2554: How to make my wife amenable, who is highly short tempered and very egoistic?
My wife is very short tempered and gets angry with me often. She is also an annoying character. She uses abusive words and indecent language in front of my small kid. How to reform her? She does not take any of my words.

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Answer by Mary
Males do not have any say in the family home unless they are saying how clean the bathroom is after they cleaned it.

Answer by mommy of 2
Honesty, I don’t know. You guys are supposed to be a team, if she can’t handle watching her language infront of a child, she has some issues. If she is saying mean abusive things, you should get counceling together, or get out. Good luck!

Answer by KOTH_Lover
You should suggest to her to get checked for some sort of chemical imbalance in her head, maybe she’s depressed or bipolar. Both are of course, important to find out. You’re raising a child together and you should do what needs to be done to help raise that kid properly.

Answer by MiscellaneousBytes
Ah, the age old problem of taming the shrew.

Good luck with that one!

Her behaviour around your child is a bit worrying. You can’t stand for that. If she is a bitch to you, you are a grown man and it’s your personal choice to take it or not, but your child has no choice. You have a duty of care to your child and that means getting your wife’s behaviour under control or just getting her out of the picture. I’d seriously consider giving her some ultimatums regarding her conduct. Like the others have said; counselling etc may be an option. Otherwise she has to know that things can’t go on the same.

Personally I would not allow anyone to upset my child, if they did it would be ditching time.

Answer by texascitybell
My husband grab me chuk me up and said he was leaving me ,
He tould me how he felt and how I was making him feel ,
We went to counseling , it helped .
You do have to find the right conselor .
And find out if she’s in to the relashionship

Answer by 2011
Talk to her if nothing changes I think it’s best to go with couples therapist .-