What are your personal expectations of your wife or husband?

Indecisive Procrastinator: What are your personal expectations of your wife or husband?
Everyone is different in what they expect of their wife or husband. Even if you’re not married you could still have basic expectations for when and if you get married.

Do you expect your wife to have kids, be a stay at home mom, be available for sex, keep house? Do you expect your husband to be the breadwinner, fix things around the house, stay romantic, be the disciplinarian of the children?

These are just examples!

Answers and Views:

Answer by ♫Out With A Bang♫
To do an equal share and acknowledge it as an equal share instead of complaining about whatever she has to do. I want her to love me and stay 100% loyal. She should also act mature and responsible. Stay romantic: that would be good also.

We would both have jobs and split up taking care of the child and chores evenly. I might actually want to do more than her.

I would prefer her to have a job, for the sake of extra financial stability but it isn’t a deciding factor.

Answer by Nikki
i can only answer this as a personal oppinion, i expect my husband ( happily married for 7 yrs ) to treat me with respect, be a great father and set a good example for our daughter, he has great work ethics, and he is head of the house hold ( altho he respects me enough to include me in every decision to be made after all marriege is 5050 ) to comunicate openly with me, and have patience and understanding with things, as far as sex goes our sex life is perfect, all i expect from him is be pleasing in bed as i do him, and to fix things around the house. ( and yes he is all of those things i mentiond ) as for me he expects me to be a stay at home mother ( which i love because i get to be there for my girl ), keep a clean home, take care of all the erands ( he cant cuz he is a truck driver and gone alot), respect him, be open with him, keep our daughter happy, cook, as far as sex i try to be available for him altho he understands i get tired, and yes i meet his expectations, just as he meets mine.