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Ginger M: dad!!!!!!!!?
my dad yells at me a lot wat do i do!!!!! IM TIERED UF THIS!!!!!!!!!!

Answers and Views:

Answer by gypse76
calmly sit down with him one night when he’s not busy and discuss what the problems are and how it may be more productive to work towards a solution this way then yelling all the time.

Answer by exterminator6969
ask him in a nice clam tone of voice why is he yelling at you?
i’m not saying that you deserve it but what was it that you did right b4 he yelled at you?
also he might be having problems at work or someplace and he is just taking out his on on you by mistake.
put yourself in his shoe and try to see it from his point of view

Answer by presleygirl
tell him ‘no matter what i do i will always be much younger than you are, and make mistakes. if you continue to yell like this you will drive me further away from you and i won’t bother to tell you how i feel about anything. ‘ your dad obviously has something else on his mind, no rational dad always yells at his daughter.
go to Jesus, pray about it, talk to a pastor, with another female present, so you can get her perspective too.

Answer by Blueladybug
Get a tape recorder and when he starts turn it on. Then later when he is calm sit him down and play it back to him so he can hear how he talks to you. Tell him how you feel and try giving him a hug and explain that it hurts your feelings. He really may not be aware of his tone. Good luck: Blueladybug

Answer by tony
Don’t yell or argue back with him it would only encourage him to continue. The best way to handle your dad’s way of communication is show him how (more) intelligent you are!

Address a detail letter to him regarding how you feel when he yells at you. Explain to him that the way to communicate with you is to sit and talk reasonable about whatever he wish to discuss. Also inform him how disappointed you are in him because of the way he approaches any situation.

End your letter by reinsuring him of the love you have for him, and that you have learn a very important lesson about when you have your own family. ‘Even say when you need to speak with your kids, you won’t yell at them, but you’ll talk sensibly’

Attach the letter on his bedroom door, and wait to see his reactions. If your dad take the time to talk to you, during the conversation outline in details on how to solve any problems or misunderstandings in the future. You may want to suggest writing a contact with the details mention. Once you both agree to it, you both sign it, and make copies for each other.

Your dad is not perfect (No kidding huh!) being a parent don’t comes with an instruction manual, just like buying a cell phone where you have a book that helps you to use the product. You are special person. Good luck. I am with you.

God Bless..

Answer by Angel
Dear U need to talk to him. When U see him free in soft mood. Then tell him all your feelings n ask his feelings. May be he is in some frustration or problem abt which U don’t know. It will surely help.

Answer by mytm4u
I would tell him I do not like him screaming at me and sit down for a minute and listen to him too. This is what I used to do to my kids until they said hey I do not like that and I try hard to listen to them.