Brother???

Stefan: Brother???
my 16 year old brother told me he is gay, how can i help him? how can i fix him? also i don’t want to get are parents involved.
he needs to be helped being gay is disguesting

Answers and Views:

Answer by ~Babez~
u cant “fix him” lol i guess u just have to suport him

Answer by crazybluepanda
Accept him for who he is that’s how you can help

Answer by hot**rod**heaven..
if he is gay he is gay.
there is no fixing him because there is nothing need fixing.
you need to except him as gay and not make a big deal about it.

Answer by whyispeeyellow
hide your clothes from him.

he might be a crossdresser too.

Answer by Mynxlet
What do you mean ‘fix him’
he isn’t broken. what an awful thing to say.

Answer by pearl.ly01
Everyone is different from one another, we all would like to change other people,,,,but would you like it if someone was trying to change you,,,,,,change can only happen when the person is ready to change for themselves….Be happy he is your brother, and that you have a brother,,,,Hes still got the same personallity, and he still treats you the same,,,respect his wishes of how he wants to be,,,,,,and love him for what is is……………………….take care

Answer by wildestfan2000
Let him go because another 2-4 years he might be heterosexual again. If not allow him to be him, I don’t like homosexuals but do not hunt them out to harm them either. Support is the best thing for him…

Answer by my random identity
help him? support him! he needs you to let him know that its ok and you’re there for him. fix him? you cant, he is what he is and you cant change that. ever thought that maybe he doesnt wanna be fixed anyway? your parents are gonna have to find out sometime, but not from you, give it some time and then eventually he’s gonna have to tell them

Answer by mal apl
uh you do realize that you cant fix gayness.
youre born with it, stop being so ignorant and love your brother the way he is.
you loved him before you knew he was gay so him being gay shouldn’t affect your relationship considering HES THE EXACT SAME PERSON.
whats so wrong with being gay anyways? love is love no matter who its with right? two straight people loving eachother is love right, so what makes it different when two homosexual people love eachother? nothing. because love is when two individuals love eachother and thats whats going on. so get over yourself and love your brother and all people for that matter.

Answer by PhoebeSantacury
Accept the fact ? ( :

Answer by Desirae G
Hind him, so that he won’t come out.

Answer by Petra L
I think the best thing you can do is to SUPPORT him. I presume that it is him who is important to you not others. Just ,,fix” him if you prefer others, but I would say that in that case you will lose him.