…..brother??

supermom814918: …..brother??
a couple yrs back i found my long lost brother. I paid 4,000 dollars to hire someone to find him, i asked my sisters to help me and they never wanted to. so i continued the search on my own. Ive gotten really close to him over the years and ive went to see him several times and my sisters dont know that. They just over the past years have stated that they wanna find him now. He is now in jail and for a very long time. Im scared to tell them because i think they will hate me forever. What should i do??

Answers and Views:

Answer by Hal
If they ask why you didn’t let them know from the start, say you didn’t think they cared to know since they didn’t want to help find him in the beginning. But if they truly want to find him now I think it’s up for you to tell them what’s been going on with you guys. Good luck!

Answer by Hillary 2008
They didn’t even want to help you find him in the first place.Just tell them but don’t feel bad if they give you HeII over it b/c like I said they didn’t even want anything to do with it until now.

Answer by smooth c
dont tell them crap let them spend $ 4,000 and and when there done then tell them.

Answer by ygromek
say i’ll find out about him and after a week or two say you find out he is in jail.or you can say too i dont have to look cause i recently find out he is in jail. i think they should know about their brother,they dont have to know you found him before.

Answer by MamaBear
I wouldn’t even tell them you found him. They didn’t care when you shelled out $ 4000. Let them pay that money just to find out he is in jail. You don’t have to share the info with them if you dont want to. And if you do tell them, they can’t get mad at you, they are the ones that didn’t want to know, so you just didn’t tell them.