: How do I make a good brother and sister relationship?
My brother and I always fight but i dont want to fight with him anymore but when he says something mean to me i blow up! I want us to have a good brother and sister relationship! H E L P M E ! Please he wont be here long and i want him to remeber me as a good caring and loving sister.
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Answer by kamran_devil
its completely normal to have fights me and my sister fight all the time over very small things and then we laugh at the fights the other day and if u want to reduce the fights just dont blow up control ur ajger and when he will se tht u r no longer annoyed by what he says he will stop it
I always think that communication is crucial in any type of relationships, including siblings. Having arguments or fights between siblings are unavoidable, but as we grow up, we should start to be more mature and try to reconcile the disagreement in a less hostile way. So talk about the things that cause your fights. Doesn’t have to be right at the time when you are hot in the head and just wanted to yell at him. Maybe at another time when both of you have calmed down or in a good mood.
If he says something mean, tell him (in a calm manner) that you are hurt and would appreciate it if he says it in a better way. Sometimes it takes one of you to be able to handle the situation calmly, and then the other should start reciprocating.
In the heat of the moment, take a few deep breaths before going into arguments or fights with him. I am sure you both know that you love each other, and both of you want to have a nice, peaceful relationship.