When couples “Make Love,” are they really doing it for the love or for the pleasure, or both?

Kong M: When couples “Make Love,” are they really doing it for the love or for the pleasure, or both?

Answers and Views:

Answer by junkman
both

Answer by Nicole R
Both

Answer by Romance
If its a boyfriend/girlfriend, its usually for the pleasure. After marriage, its both.

Answer by Tammy g
Both!

Answer by ilovetosing.
depends on the couple.
i personally – do it for the love. i love him alot.

but hey,the pleasure is awesome too.

Answer by sarahhardy92
both

Answer by art_cjohnson
depends on why they r makin love
but mostly both

Answer by Nicole W
I do it for both.

Answer by Jack B
Both

Answer by genesis1
If they are in love then it is both. If they are not then they are not making love, they are either just having sex or just fucking.

Answer by chuck
“making love” is what girls do, therefore they get the pleasure from it.
“having sex” is what guys do, therefore they get the pleasure from it.

Answer by Pedro
One night stand – Pleasure
Relationships under 3 months – Pleasure
Relationship of a long time – Both.

Answer by mathlover student
generally if they are unmarried and still studying or in highschool…sex is just for pleasure

Answer by SeeYouAtTheGame!
Depends. When we are partying and having a good ol time we F like P@rn stars.
In the morning we gaze into each others eyes and it’s more passionate, slower. I seriously LOVE him at that moment when our bodies connect. The best emotional feeling in the world.

Answer by Myles O
both

Answer by trixxxy_23
im sure both….moreso pleasure of course. But there are those times of complete passion that both are just so into it and involved it’s almost like a slow motion moment! But then it turns into complete pleasure for one another

Answer by Mandy H
For love, the pleasure is the perk!

Answer by cheercoach
I know making love is different than having sex for me. (I have been maried for 5 years so I can talk about the topic, LOL.) When making love, pleasure isn’t important for most. If you are truly connected, then the pleasure is there. You aren’t striving for the “finale” just being with the person you love.

Answer by Sov
Both silly!! Its a great gesture of caring and so much fun!! WOO HOO

Answer by flyasianqt
Both

Answer by getruff69
MAKE LOVE has many different meanings, depending on who you ask….
Usher’s song “Make Love in This Club”, is referrign to fuc***g a complete stranger for pleasure.
A serious couple, or married couple, it’s the female who will say make love, them an usually just says se*…

Answer by howdydude41
It is a way to express your love more than other way to me and the end results gives pleasure to both if it is done right.

Answer by wendy C
BOTH. THEY FEEL CLOSE AND WANT TO EXPRESS THEIR LOVE. IT ALSO FEELS GOOD AND RELEASES A LOT OF HORMONES IN THE BRAIN THAT MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD.AS WELL AS THE EXPERIENCE ITSELF IS ALSO PLEASUREABLE PHYSICALLY.

Answer by Charlotte
If the couples really really like each other then it will be for love

if the person is looking for a one night stand and is just feeling horny then it will be for pleasure

or it can mean both depending on the person and his or hers intentions

Answer by Anonymous
Having been in a long-term relationship, it can be for any combination of the reasons above. You can’t expect every time be a profound emotional experience, and I think you’d feel worse in the long run if you wanted it to (i.e. disappointed). It’s surprisingly more comfortable in general to just take it for the physical pleasure sometimes. I don’t think that there’s any loss of love in just admitting to your partner that you’re both sexual beings and not over-dramatized characters from a romance novel.

On the other hand, you may sometimes have sex for just the emotional part and not be getting much out of it in terms of physical pleasure…sometimes you’ll do it just to do it, without much of either. I realize that’s not very helpful, but that’s what I’ve experienced personally.

Answer by luvtarebear
Well, the term “make love” is just a nicer way of referring to sex for most people. it sounds better for someone to say “i want to make love to you” rather than “have sex with me” or whatever. No matter what people say its human nature to have sex even if there is no feeling there. Yes, in today’s society the feeling and intimacy of it all is a key importance. But the lust for it will always be there. even if someone is “making love” to you because they just love you and there not just doing it for the pleasure coming from it. the pleasure is always there and is what really makes people want it in the first place. thus the whole concept of masturbating. i am sure one doesn’t love them self so much that they want to “make love” to them-self’s… they want the pleasure.