What is “true love”? Is it real? Is there really a one and only???

kon11stantine11: What is “true love”? Is it real? Is there really a one and only???
So. Im getting married. And I know what *I* specifically think about love, and true love… but what do you all think about it? Is true love real? what IS “true love”? falling in love?

What does it mean to all of you??

Answers and Views:

Answer by Darcyyy.
i think there is a CERTAIN someone for everyone out there.

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Answer by Vanessa
true love has no true definition, it really cant be put into words. Its just something you feel, you just know.

Answer by Renee B
true love is sex and friendship all rolled in one.

Answer by tanjie_092557
Loving yourself…which teaches others how to love you!

Answer by beth
Compromise, communication, forgiveness, acceptance, love unconditional

Answer by meme c koo
i found my true love, i personally found my “love at first sight” and i we are now enganged, have a beautiful baby girl, everything is gooood. i am still madly in love.

Answer by dbump2
well I personally feel there are many RIGHT people for you and true love can only happen if the individuals are both open to falling in love and working through the complexities it brings with it.

There is not ONE person who is a soul mate —there are many but right timing brings the soul mate into your life for the long haul.

Hard work goes into creating, keeping and nurturing love.

Answer by deedee72
I believe in true love. I have a perfect marriage and could never want anything more from anyone else. I believe if you have the right partner then you will be fine. Good luck

Answer by Bonduesa
when you know you are with “The One” you just know

Answer by mimi s
Love is a vague term that can apply to a lot of different things and people. Is there one ‘true love’? NO. Is that a bad thing? NO. Society makes expectations and people buy into this one and only true love b.s. Anyone who has touched your life ands made a difference in it is a true love. And who wants to limit that to one?

Answer by Nathan B
Love is real. It is what you feel inside, and what you do with it. Falling in love is a great thing, and a great feeling. But it is a selfish thing. Just my opinion. You have this high intense expectation of others and getting into thinking he she is perfect in every way (at least started to look and feel that way), but of course there is no perfect person, and falling in love feel will eventually fade away in some case, but not in all case as long as the partner is keep on feeding you and meeting your expectation, it will be there. LOVE on the other hand is selfless and unconditional. There is a HUGE difference. Just my thought anyway.

Answer by The Broken Planet
I can look across the room at my wife and honestly say “Yes, it does exist.”

Answer by Callie Q
True love to me is loving someone all the different ways you can possibly love someone. You love them as a friend, you love them as your family, you trust them (with everything), you find them attractive, you love their personality, you care about them deeply… And they love you the same way.

Answer by enjoyinglife4ever
there are many great people for each of us,true love is the person that compliments,supports,and understands you through good and bad.No you do not only get one chance,but put all you have into each chance you get

Answer by jude29
I do not think there is only one “true love”. I think that you find someone you love, who you are compatible with and you both decide to make it work.
And that is exactly what it is, marriage is work. You have to constantly work at it, and everyday decide and choose that you are going to work at it.
For all of this work though, there are great rewards. You will grow together, have a life partner who has shared good and bad times.
I suppose that is what you would call “true love”.

Answer by greyskymourning82
I think there are many forms of love..romantic love, platonic love..etc. I think the best kind of love is a love that evolves over time and always is what you need it to be.
I don’t really believe in “true love” I think there are so many different people out there that might be “right” for you.. it just depends on timing…meeting when both are single, good place in life wanting a relationship….I guess I don’t limit myself to a soulmate because if you have ever been in love you know that person is always the one for you. The true test will be if you can grow together over time..not grow apart.

Answer by madderthanthehatter
I thing beth and dbump2 hit the nail on the head and said it a lot better so I won’t repeat. Part of true love is a decision to love and it involves some work. Part of that work is working on accepting each other just as you are.

Answer by tobyman
I never believed in love. Never wanted to get married, have kids, start a family- non of it. I never even really had a boyfriend during high school or most of college.

Now that I’m with my current boyfriend, I (secretly!) want to get married, have kids, and start a family. That is when I knew I was in love. I think its when you are willing to change your life for someone. Since I have been with him I have pushed myself to finish schooling and get into nursing school and I have been thinking about getting a degree in psychology also. All because I want to have the money to do whatever we want later in life.

Answer by dunno
i truely think that true love exists. that weak feeling in your stomach when the phone rings and that special person calls. how happy you are with the person. no matter how much time you spend with that person you never get bored. and if things get rough between you two, and temptation is there, you still choose the love of that one person even when the grass looks greener on the other side.and as long as those feelings are there in return. the opinion of someone else might be totally different. it is truly hard to explain what true love is. but i think you definately know when you are truely in love.

Answer by amy
Yap! make sure you’re meant for each other then forever you’ll be together because you love each other.

Answer by whereRyou?
Married my best friend
I Value his happiness above my own and he values mine.
We both put 100% into the marriage.
We have fun.
We have many of the same interests.
We don’t look outside the marriage to solve problems in it.
We have plans, goals and dreams and support and work with each other to make them happen.
We can identify problems and work out solutions that make us both happy or that we can both at least live with.
We don’t sweat the small stuff.

He shares his strength when mine is weak. When he is weak, he lets me shore him up. We cling together when the seas get rough. When he is away or I am away I feel like I am missing a limb or vital organ. It sounds cliche`, but he truly completes me. Without him, colors would fade to black and white.

We fell in love and it was passion and dreams. Real life set in and it was hard work and persistance. The hard work started paying off and took the relationship to heights and depths I never imagined. We are both happy, laughing and living the dream. For us, it was true love. I don’t believe I could ever match it again. Could I love? Sure, but I could never love like this. I doubt I would even bother.

Answer by Prinzes
True love is when you naturally have a give and take relationship. It’s when you never feel like your trying to make things work. You do it because you love for the other person to be happy. When a smile on their face puts a smile on yours. I don’t believe in a one and only because if that were the case nobody out there would ever find their one true love.

Answer by blueberrymuffin
yes there is a someone for everyone! true love is out there! u just have to find it! or it might find u!

Answer by Linda S
Love takes time, patience and work. There will be great
times and there will be times of sorrow. The clue is to
cherish your relationship and don’t let ANYONE (including
in-laws) get between you.

Don’t go to sleep mad. Kiss eachother before you part in
the morning and when you greet eachother after work.
And always before you sleep. You’ve got to work at it
to keep it alive. But, with fun rituals (Friday date night,
kissing eachother’s noses, walks in the evening, etc) you
can make a loving life-long relationship that only deepens
as you grow gray together.

Great Luck!

Answer by supermimi
Love is respect, genuine care, and desire for each other.
Love is a two ways street. It is not love when you hear a woman says “I love him because I found he loves me more”.
Higher level love requires one party to make a sacrifice. Love is not possession. Love is something you will feel it when it comes to you. Love is something on a much higher platform than just a beautiful face, attractive body, money, property, sexual desires for each other. This kind of love is rare. You will not be able to find often. When a person says “I love you” so easily, it means that he loves to make love to you body, loves your money, etc. Once you found someone is willing to sacrifice for you, then, you may find a higher level love. If he really loves you, even you are far away, old, poor, he will love you. Of course, you must have certain quality for him to love you like that. His love is much deeper.He will think about you all the times. Hope you find this kind of love! True Love? Yes. It is real!. but hard to find!
There is No “multiple love”, Never mind True Love – If you found “multiple loves”, those so called “Love” are just a lot of Desires – desires to have sex with you; desire for your money, etc. True Love is unconditional; Most of the time is to Give, Not to Take – Sometimes, you find it from your parents, brother, sisters. You will never be able to find “True Love” again and again in a bar, a one night stand social gathering place.

Answer by whoever
No loves is not real outside of your family. I know because I’m 25 and have never experianced it once. But that’s just my opinion.