sneakypete: I think I’m falling in love. “Ladies”, what should I do next?
I’ll start off my story by saying that about 2 months ago I broke up with my girlfriend whom I had been with for nearly 4 yrs. We had been living with each other for 5 months prior to break-up. Ok, so a couple of weeks ago, a woman friend of mine calls me up and is looking for a place to live, so i tell her the place next door to mine is up for rent. She was interested about the house so i gave her the number to the people who owned the house and to make it short, she moves into the house. So shes lived there about a week and she calls me and asks if i want to go out to have a drink at the local bar..I say yes of course. So we both have quite a few drinks and were feeling the effects of the alcohol. We end up closing the bar down and I take her back to her place, which again is only like 30ft away from my door to hers. I pull in her driveway and walk her to the door because that is the gentleman I am. She asks if I would like to come in, so i say yes. We walk into the living room and before I know it she has her arms around me and were kissing. Now this caught me by surprise but I just went with the flow. So after a few juicy kisses, she then asked if i wanted to stay the night, of course I said yes. She said “Ok, but no sex” I said “that’s cool”.Now, mind you, at this point sex is still on the mind, but I wasn’t expecting any because she had to be up for work in like 3 hours and she knew she had to go to bed. So, moving on….we get into bed and we cuddle all night long with either her arm around me or mine around her and its a good thing because it was freezing in that house. Body heat works wonders. So morning comes and at 6am she gets up and leaves for work. No kiss or hug, but a thank you. She also said that it really sucks being alone. So shortly after she leaves I drive back to my house. That’s it.
To get right to the point, I’m scared to hop right into another relationship because the first one didn’t work out, but on the other hand you have to take chances in life. I’m 28 yrs old and she’s 32 and has 2 kids(who by the way were not home that night) Were both not getting any younger. It feels so right and I’m almost certain that this all will happen again. Ok so with all that said, what do you think I should do next? Should I go with the flow and see what happens? Let her make the next move? What do you think ladies? Give me your opinion please.
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Answer by Muah
Go with the flow for right now. If your interested, make it clear with her by taking her out and making her feel good about herself. Don’t wait for her to make the next move, you do it.
That must have been a long drive back to your house!
Should go with the flow and see what happens! It dosn’t matter who makes the first move but if you like her you could ask to go out again.
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