My husband has been texting a single female co worker when not at work and not about work is he cheating?

prtynks: My husband has been texting a single female co worker when not at work and not about work is he cheating?
I have been reading text messages between my husband and a single female co worker that he has introduced to me before. They don’t text about work and they text about me and our marital problems! It makes me very angry and when i confronted him he got mad and tried to turn it all on me!

Answers and Views:

Answer by Bubbles
If he isn’t, he’s trying to. Sorry.

Answer by priv828
He is doing the “poor me” my wife is unbearable to live with sh*t.

He is going for the sympathy vote….maybe just for an ego stroke, but possibly to try and get her to sleep with him.

Many affairs start out with them using the other for a shoulder to cry on, or for advice during their marital problems. Problems that can’t actually be solved because all the effort is going into the friendship rather than the marriage.

Answer by unsung hero
He is interested in her. He is complaining to her about how crappy of a wife you are to get her sympathy. To show her he is vulnerable and needs a woman who will treat him with respect. He definately already has invested feelings with her.

You should take a long hard look at how you are treating your husband, because he isn’t happy.

Answer by Ryde’ On
Cheating involves dicks, vaginas , breasts and bodily fluids.

If these are absent from the equation , he’s not ” cheating , just being inappropriate.

Answer by Poopsie Mellish
She is a slut so go scratch her eyes and pull her hair! Tear off her clothes so she is naked in the street and anounce she is a whore! Have a friend tape the scene because people will pay to see a cat fight!

Answer by Journal
You have marital problems of course. However, which ever ones you can prevent, try doing just that. For example, if there is a disagreement about something let him argue, because I know he will. Let him do so, however, do not give him the benefit of a doubt that he will try to argue to give him something to tell her. This will give him a reason to talk to her. Watch what happens when he runs out of things to say to her. What dummy sits around waiting on a husband to complain to her about his wife? BORING!!! She will get so tired of him.

Answer by Timz Silver Hammer
He’ll soon move to the physical level, people don’t do what he’s doing, if they want what they have. Make a stand, decide to be worth the singular focus, he should have on you. He can’t fix your problems, by talking to her.

Answer by Shirley Y
Yes he has an interest in this girl

Answer by sunnyone
Oh come on, seriously…You already know the answer to this ..There is no good reason a happily married man or a unhappily married man should be doing this..You know that,I know that and so does everyone else.The question here is are you ok with this behavior,is this a deal breaker for your marriage? Only you know the answer to that..Good luck!

Answer by Catchemnow.com
Sounds like he may be cheating. Cheating can be any form, emotional or physical. The mere fact that he turned it around on you is a clear signal that he is guilty. Husband did something similar and it turned into so much more. Check out my story and see what I did to find out the truth. Watch your back. Good Luck!

Answer by mad
OH Come on…
Dont mess it to an extent that he will dump you..
Stop accusing him and doubting him…
your behavior is the reason he is doing like that…
Trust is important in relationship..
Talk to him and Convince him .. Be good to him..
Relationships are precious .. Once if you have a Broken relationship then you can never get a perfect one again..

Answer by Kamanfirst name Kapoor
Yes that is cheating. And your husband wants to Fu>CK her because i m doing the same……..