why would your self proclaimed “true love” make you decide between your family and your lov{er}?

ryukusami: why would your self proclaimed “true love” make you decide between your family and your lov{er}?

Answers and Views:

Answer by knight_royality
If so called “true love” wants you to decide between family or lover. Then it’s not love it’s a control thing for the lover. That in itself is not love. A true lover would never put you in that position.

Answer by Stan W
It’s a Romeo and Juliet situation.
It’s not a good thing – and every family holiday and event for the rest of your life will be torture. Birthdays…weddings…graduations
…happy times for everyone else but you.

Why is your true love so insecure?
Would a little growing up time be helpful?
How many other ways will this insecurity pop up – will your friends be next? How about your personal goals?

It’s good that you are questioning it now – listen to your head.

Answer by kevin
She wouldn’t . If someone really loves you they will excpet who ever your friends and family no matter what. Even if some of your family members are a bit odd. Tell her you will not choice and if she makes you.. tell her to pack her bags. Women come and go and you’ll have plenty of choices but you can never choose your family.

Answer by fear of the dark
it could be true love, but if you keep choosing family over your true love (even in situations you know you shouldn’t cuz family can be wrong sometimes), then the true love will feel like you don’t love them back just as much.

Answer by Accalia R
No one that loves you would put you in a position to choose between. If she loved you, she would have told you to seek your family and be close to them, because no one knows what will happen in the future, and you need your friends and family close to you.
She does that to control you, and she is afraid that your family will push you away from him. Ask yourself why is she afraid of that, maybe she has something to hide.