Why is it called “MAKING LOVE” If sex doesn’t help people FALL IN LOVE with each other over time?

jenna: Why is it called “MAKING LOVE” If sex doesn’t help people FALL IN LOVE with each other over time?
its the most amazing connection two people can make….how can that not result in feelings of love for that person over time?

Answers and Views:

Answer by Nate Dawg
If two people keep having sex, they eventually will fall in love if they aren’t already…

Answer by marlene
if its a one night stand! or if you are just having sex to forget someone else? there are many ways you can have sex without feelings…. (or if your a slut and doing it for money)!

Answer by ladystang
guys learned that women will have sex if they call it making love.

Answer by Mystical Mamba
easily

sex is sex – love is love – sex is not love – love is not sex

the term ‘making love’ is just polite, and not descriptive

you can never use sex in the hope of making someone fall in love with you

xxxx(life isn’t like the movies )xxxx

those ‘feelings’ associated with sex/realtionships – it’s not love – its pure biological lust – its our brains telling us that we need to be with a person for a set number of years to raise children (scientists have found out its around 7 years)

incidentally – i believe in love 100% –

Answer by Profien
if your married or truly in love, it is making love because you both are connected and most people tend to make love or “have sex” with thier true love partner slowly and passionatly so they can connect in the eyes and share a bond. have sex is just do get pleasure and not even barely care about that person. it all depends on how you look at it. it actually does make the couple fall more in love with each other, trust me, more you do it, the more you will fall in love, especially the day after is wonderful.

Answer by emptylocket
at the very least it leads to the people having a strong connection/admiration. whether they fall in love or not, they still have a permanent connection and strong feelings for each other

Answer by bloodnguts
making lust?

Answer by OK
Maybe it just sounds nicer than “having sex” ? I don’t know I think it sounds crazy to say making love–how do you make love?

Answer by spiderking88
having sex is having sex. when u r in love with another person and they with u, then being intimate with them is making love. the clue is that the two people r already in love with each other. making love includes all forms of intimacy between two loving, committed and monogomus persons. sex is just sex….feelings optional. it is carnal and need not include ne love.

Answer by Britt
Because they mean it like… 2 people who are already in love expressing their feelings for each other.

Answer by I Need Coffee
That’s just something men call it so you feel better about doing it on the first date.

Answer by Mr. Fix It
Making love is different than just sex.
I can have sex with just about any women I know but I can only make love with my wife.
The deep emotional connection does not exist with anyone else.

Answer by James
Beause for two people in love it is the ultimate connection. Two people not in love and having sex are not making love, just having sex.

Answer by bandaid_46
There was a time way back in history that nice people didn’t talk openly about sex. They wanted sex to be closely associated with marriage, so that people didn’t procreate like bunnies. Getting pregnant outside of marriage was taboo. Because they were so “sensitive” to “vulgar language”, they made up nice names that could be used in polite conversation. Even the term “making love” really wasn’t used in mixed company.

All this seems really prudish, and it is a good thing that people are now allowed to be more open minded about things. But it wasn’t all nonsense, either. We all know that indiscriminate sex and promiscuity doesn’t lead to long term happiness — or to love. You cannot make someone love you by having sex with them. Just ask some of the single moms out there.

Sex is sex; it is nice if you love the person you are having sex with, but for many people it isn’t really necessary. Especially for guys. That’s why people cheat and then say it didn’t mean anything.

Answer by kbel k
Having sex and making love are not the same thing. Many times you have “sex’ with your partner and it is all about the lust. Making “love” is a deeper experience involving not only love, but trust.

Answer by Foshizzle34
Because you don’t always make love; sometimes it’s just pure raw sex! Making love is something you do only with someone your in love with! While have sex is just trying to please or be pleased!