How can i control my orgasm and stay hard?

lkoumides: How can i control my orgasm and stay hard?
Most of the time when I have sex with my girlfriend I am really turned on, which is not bad, but that makes me orgasm very early! How can i control that? Also if I don’t orgasm I tend to loose my erection. What can I do about that? Furthermore I have problems with getting erections again after I had an orgasm. I would apreciate your help and advice! Thank you.

Answers and Views:

Answer by Mycroft Holmes
Actually men ejaculate and women have orgasms…maybe you can call ejaculation an orgasm but that would be like calling men’s underwear panties.

Generally it takes a man about 15 minutes before he can perform again make sure your partner helps you and you help her. Trying is fun.

Light-bleach…I am willing to learn I just never heard of male orgasms and actually noted such. in my answer and wanted us to be talking about the same thing.

I can not see me talking about my orgasms with my guy friends

Enjoy

Answer by light-bleach
Actually men do experience orgasms right before ejaculation. Just relax a little.. research it online.

Answer by ♥ Pardonne Moi is bored ♥
well, depending on your maturity, it may just take time to develop that. You can always pleasure your partner orally and manually first, so as not to put that much pressure on just using your penis.

Answer by Larkin L
Most guys are only good for one round. They need a recovery period which is why you can’t get an erection again after you have an orgasm.

In general, practice and relaxation will help you deal with the problem. Some men try to distract themselves by thinking non-sexual thoughts (such as naming baseball players and records) to avoid becoming excited too fast.

Some helpful techniques include the following:

The “stop and start” method:

This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. The stimulation is then removed for about thirty seconds and then may be resumed. The sequence is repeated until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.

The “squeeze” method:

This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. At that point, the man or his partner gently squeezes the end of the penis (where the glans meets the shaft) for several seconds, withholding further sexual stimulation for about 30 seconds, and then resuming stimulation. The sequence may be repeated by the person or couple until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.