Yeahh: How exactly will my fiancée and I have a deeper connection after the waiting for no premarital sex?
I’ve been dating my fiancée for two years.
We are both catholic, so we both don’t agree with premarital sex.
We will be married dec. 21.
People always say “oh you two will be so much more attached when you lose it” but I’m not sure how we will be so much more attached?
I love her with all my heart, so I don’t see how I can be any more attached than I am already..
Answers and Views:
Answer by Liza2
Sex is one way of bonding. I think you will have a deeper sexual connection because you have waited and know that you both love each other very much. Congratulations on your pending wedding. 🙂
Answer by Mimi
That you both waited together and lost your virginity to each other will give you a specific connection to one another. On the other hand (speaking with a failed marriage under my belt) sexual compatibilty is VERY important if you aim to maintain a lifelong bond with someone. Whatever the outcome, I wish you both luck!
If you dont feel sexual attraction to her right now then you are dead !
If you do feel sexual tension because of the attraction and you wait another month or so, then you will always talk about how you both waited for each other !
The most important thing for me is – YOU AS THE MAN HAVE SACRIFICED MUCH MORE THAN SHE HAS !
Your sex drive is supposed to be higher and hers is not !
You have sacrificed more than she…………..so i hope you remember that !
Especially when she and friends joke about it later on in front of you, you are the stonger one !
Tell a woman that she will not be able to contact friends or have no emotional connection with you before marriage etc – then what hehe
Answer by MirnaI find it sweet that you both have made this decision together. Sex is something that should be cherished with your one true love.. and thats who your fiancee is to you..But its symbolism after marriage is that you and her become one person. I think it will deeper your connection more then anything just because you guys waited till you were married. Do not listen to those people, they no nothing..anyways hope you and your soon to be wifey have a great wedding and life together filled with love& health, 😀
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