Why are small breasts “bad”?

anon7889: Why are small breasts “bad”?
They’re just breasts, same as big ones, only smaller. But they serve the same function, they have the same parts, and practically look the same. I mean a woman has to be flat chested, but really, truly flat chested to have no sort of shape… and even in those cases, a female chest doesn’t resemble a man’s chest at all.

I’m an A cup, and while my breasts are small, they’re very shapely and round. But for some reason, a lot of people, especially guys, still like to tease me about looking like a boy. I don’t look like a boy. I’m 22, I have long hair, long eyelashes, plump lips, a small waist and big, curvy hips. but for some strange reason, it seems the only indicators of “womanhood” are breasts, considering how men seem to think women like me look like little boys, yet women with big breasts and tiny hips look womanly and sexy.

I don’t get it, but it’s there, it exists, and no one can deny it. Otherwise the media and porn would not be filled with busty women as “hot” or “sexy”. I don’t care about fashion models, because very few people I know are into it, I’m not into it, and guys I know (even gay guys) are definitely not into it. Guys I know don’t go thinking “Oh yeah, Agyness Deyn is so hot, much hotter than Scarlett Johanson”.

But open any men’s magazine, and you’ll see what I mean. I’ve never met a guy who thinks smaller is better, most guys say it’s not important but that big is a huge plus, and that bigger is more fun in bed. But that at the end of the day it’s not important, but that we need to understand that’s how men are hard wired and that they can’t help it, and we just have to accept it. Well, easier said than done. I’m a small breasted woman who has had to deal with guys who “loved” me staring at busty women, ignoring my breasts in bed, even suggesting implants (the nerve…) So no, it’s not acceptable, I don’t deserve such things, especially ’cause I didn’t choose to look like this!

What’s worse is when guys go “Oh but women do it too, they all want a big penis!” Which not only isn’t true, it’s not comparable. Men have their stuff safely concealed from people’s preying eyes all the time. We can try to conceal it as much as we like, but in the end it’s usually evident. Unless a woman heavily pads her bra, it’s evident. I don’t like padding, it’s false advertising. When I take my bra off, I still have small breasts.

I think my breasts are pretty, but men seem to really be hardwired differently. Most of them ignore them and ogle busty women. I’m SO SICK OF IT! To make matters worse I’ve heard many guys say that if there is such a thing as a ‘freak’ who likes smaller breasts better, then he must be a closeted gay or pedophile or both.

And even my current boyfriend thinks the bigger the better and all that crap. Seriously, what’s so unsexy about small breasts? I know busty women complain about too much attention, but that only reinforces that “bigger is better” for guys. And I’m straight. I care about what guys want. I’m tired of feeling like second best all the time, sexually, ’cause I like sex and this stuff seems to be important for men. I don’t want a guy to “like me for me” and “see past my flaws” because that makes me feel like I’m a gross monster, but with a big heart. Of course, not such a big heart like the guy in question, who obviously put aside his needs to be with the ugly, gross, boy looking small chested monster that is me….

Answers and Views:

Answer by TreyMacG
Not a thing wrong with small breasts! I love them in all sizes, except scraping the floor! But I’m more of a legs and a$ $ type of guy. =)

Answer by COMAX
Well Honestly…

i enjoy looking at large breasts (in magazines and such)
but when it comes down to it… my personal preference is a smaller boobed woman with a great shape (nice hips)

just my 2 cents… i bet you look great!

Answer by auftrit
Wow……….that’s a long question.

Nothing is wrong with small breasts.
It’s all in the eye of the beholder.

Answer by Annabelle
Media is the reason why most of us think having big breast is beautiful.
I think natural looking girls are prettier than the superficial looking ones.
It’s not about who’s boobs are better. Be confident in who you are!
You will find ton’s of people who like you for you!

Answer by chell
I like only small breast. because it’s nice and straight

Answer by Oh Dear Lily!
I can totally relate to how you feel. I’m barely an A cup, and a redhead with freckles, so for some odd reason boys don’t feel attracted to me either.
I think you pretty much answered your own question there. Men are not only hardwired to like bigger breasts (subconsciously, they equate bigger boobs with higher fertility) but also, the media also bombards them (and us women) that the ideal woman has to be shaped like Beyonce, Angelina Jolie, and Holly Madison.
I would love to see the day when a straight guy can genuinely say that Agyness Deyn’s body is hot.
I guess for now, all us “training bra” girls can do is dream, right?

Answer by tinkispink07
I know exactly what you mean. I’m a b-cup but on the smaller side. I’ve always been self conscious bout them around guys, by I like them the way they are. My current boyfriend used to tell me how much he loved my breast and it made me feel good. Until the one time he said “well yeah I like them the way they are but sometimes I wish they were bigger” it’s like oh thanks. But then if I wear a shirt that show cleavage he makes fun of me for havin them “hanging out” when there not. I wish I knew why guys go with the bigger is better stuff to it’s annoying have the guy you love check out other girls and say oh she hot when you really don’t wana hear it.

Answer by teezzy37
SIZE DOESN’T MATTER TO ME YOU KNOW I AM A 38DD SOME MEN DON;T LIKE BIG BREAST IF I COULD AFFORD IT I WOULD GET A REDECSTION MY BRA’S COST A LOT THE SUMMER TIME IT’S HOTT AND IT’S A MESS SOO YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL JUST LIKE YOU ARE WE ARE ALL MADE DIFFRENT FOR A REASON AND IF WHOM EVER DOES NOT LIKE THEN TELL THE TO GO TO YOU KNOW WHERE OH AND FOR THE GUYS THAT SAYS YOUR CHEST LOOKS LIKE A BOYS ASK THEM HOW DO THEY KNOW WHAT A BOYS CHEST LOOK LIKE PERVS.

Answer by Brian
Nothing wrong at all w/ small breast. I prefer them. And just think, your back will be fine and they wont be wet socks and oranges when your older 🙂 …Don’t listen to anyone that makes you think there is something wrong w/ your body.

Answer by Solid Snake
I think your breasts are fine, In my opinion I hate anything that’s over a D. It just turns me off to the point I want to be sick. I’m not gay I just don’t see how big breasts are appealing to men. Don’t worry so much about what other people think. You know who you are and you should be happy with that. Enjoy your life and be proud of what you got.

Answer by Smitty
You’re still hanging out with “little boys”.
That includes your current BF.
He’s highly immature.

Dump him & his $ #itty attitude.

Eventually, you’ll meet a MAN
who will judge you by the size of your heart,
not the size of your boobies.

Answer by VKBP007
Not everyone thinks they are bad!

Answer by k h
If you are with someone who does not really like you, that is really your own fault.

A breasts (or smaller) are extremely beautiful and most guys who have a wife or girlfriend with that, appreciate it, I would think.

I do at least. And you are quite right – they have all the same as big ones.

But to tell you the truth – don’t know in your case, but usually it is the ladies themselves who create problems about things like that. Don’t you think so?

I think those who destroy their breasts with implants – in most cases, the guy would try whatever he can come up with to dissuade her.

And then one sound piece of advise: NEVER believe what a group of guys say about such things – especially not if there are girls present! ;o) In that situation, they would never reveal their private feelings, but often just pull off some cliches. I don’t know why (well maybe I do) but that is the way it is.

But honestly: make sure it is not something in your own mind that is making you think your boyfriend likes other breasts better than yours. Because if that would be true, there is something else not quite right about the relationship. Of course one loves small breasts as much as (or even more than) big or average ones!

As teens, we did not always go for you, because you were harder to get if you were shy about your breasts, and we needed it to be easy and as risk-free as possible.

But past twenty, these things should not cause any problems. ;o)

So the answer to your main question, why small breasts are bad, is that they are not ;o)

Answer by Uwe
It is at least laughable, if not seriously ill, that all woman want to have implants so they can all look alike.
Every woman deserves to be loved as a unique person and not a clone!
Small breasts women are very especial and in certain way love much more intensely.
Your desire to be understood just emphasizes it.
Feel proud of what you’ve received and the reward will come along. After all, size only matters to the ego and not to the heart. Enjoy!

Answer by robmick
Gotta tell you, it’s been my experience that as you get older, they too will get larger. Not that there’s anything at all wrong with smaller. They’re usually more sensitive anyway, and believe you-me, guys like them ALL. and feel lucky with whatever they can see/get/feel/touch..all that is just perfect for them.

Answer by Mike S
Agyness Deyn is NOT HOT.