When kissing for the first time who controls the style of kiss the man or the woman?

Tammy: When kissing for the first time who controls the style of kiss the man or the woman?
My friends and I began this discussion over the weekend, however we never could come up with a definite answer. So I wanted to see what everyone else thought on the subject. When kissing for the first time do men conform to the woman style or do women conform to the man’s style.

Answers and Views:

Answer by Phil
It was my girlfriend was the one who took control and i didn’t mind it.

Answer by Piggy
It’s a two way thing. You each respond to what the other does. You don’t ‘control’ a kiss.

Answer by MOTO
I believe a kiss just kinda happens…. I think both involved just follow each other’s style, not that there’s a definite one for either. It depends on the people.

Answer by Kristal
I’d say whoever initiated the kiss. Whomever leans in first controls it all. Unless the other turns the table.

Answer by ♪Take Off Your Colors♪ suspended
it is normally the person who initiates the kiss or is more experienced

from what i have come accros,, its normally the guy

Answer by Marc
You both conform to each others style of kiss. So just kiss and things will be cool. If you are thinking about this wile you are kiss someone then you don’t need to be kissing that person.

Answer by Bewildered
No one controls the style of th kiss. Our emotions and hormones control the intensity of the kiss. Th only thing I can give you here is if its a new relation with this person, you don’t want to kiss like you ae eating their face. A simple yet eloquent kiss is easy. lip to lip, simple. adding open mouth and tongue is for more advanced relationships. Not advancd like years into it but advanced in means by your feelings for this person.

Answer by Libby
Um… last time I checked, kissing involves two people. Both put in effort. There’s nothing worse than trying to make out with an unresponsive partner.

Answer by Tina
ya it jus happens. u cant tell how it wud all go until u experience it. both ways u jus play it around. somehow u will get into ur comfort zone. just go with the flow.

Answer by Erin
my boyfriend always takes control of kissing and i think its better tht way