Jamie 😛: Kissing ?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
I have been with my boyfriend for a few months now and we both feel that it’s about time for our first kiss. He is more experienced than me. I have never kisses anyone before. I am 15 and he is 16. What kind of kiss we be best? I want to know which kiss and how to do it. Like French kissing or just a peck. Nothing too sexual please. We are not ready for that. Also what kinds of things could I do while kissing him that would be nice 😀
Answers and Views:
Answer by Lord Zane Vorhis
If you have to ask a question like this, you’re not ready to date. Mature a little more.
just go in for a kiss and pretend you know what your doing but follow what he doesAnswer by Oopsy
I agree with the man above. you need to mature a bit, if you’re asking how to kiss. It’s not something people can tell you how to do, having instructions off people is going to make you worry more etc cause you will constantly be worrying about whether you’re doing everything right. It comes naturally, as much as you’re going to hate that answer..its the truth.Answer by 8 mile
I’ve been in the same situation as you. start off with peck and if you are ready then go deeper.Answer by ekto s
French kissing is sexual.
A short kiss is a good one to start with.
Then when you start to feel what kissing is about, then you can adjust according to how you feel.
Stay vertical, dont lay down.
If he gets you laying down and French kissing, your clothes will start coming off!
Just know what you limit is beforehand and stick to it.Answer by Krista
its been a few months and you havent ever kissed?!Answer by Jack Notting
yeah, i’d wait until it just happens.Answer by ram.murtimishra
wow french kissing,so niceAnswer by LEGEND
first kiss should always be gentle and sweet. frenching would not be ideal for a first kiss.
kiss his lips top or bottom, little suction.. maybe a hint of tongue…2-3 secs. pull back. then both of you can take it from there.
yea his hands on yr waist and urs on his shoulders/neck will do.Answer by Rachel
i obly had my first kiss a few months ago. i was so so nervous, but when the time comes it is so easy to find his rythm. you just have to pretend you know what you are doing, and it comes naturally. there is never a time when you are mature enough to have a first kiss (i should know, im only 14 :P). the experience is lovely, you just need to find his rythm and it will all be fine 🙂 good luck 🙂Answer by Hannah G
You know, at your age, most people are kissing the face off randoms at a party.Answer by Sousuke_Kaname
for me, it’s better if it’s just a smack, or one long(not much) kiss..not french or torid or anything but a simple kiss..
u’ll feel that the world was paused, or stopped..
take care of ur self too, avoid long kissing like torid, it may cause of sexual experience..
and..be careful, there are people who were just playing their relationship..ohh!!…just stick to the first paragraph 🙂
I remember my first kiss. I was a bit of a late bloomer..16. Lol. (I’m 24 now)
I was really nervous I wouldn’t do it right. But it really does come natural. Just follow his lead. Soft peck first, then do what he does. Can’t go wrong there. Just try and relax! I promise you will be surprised at how natural it will feel! 🙂Answer by Terry
No one kisses the same I don’t think. It’s all natural. I think the first kiss should be like half-french kissing. Just don’t use your tongue, I mean. It doesn’t have to be a peck. Don’t worry about it and don’t get too stressed out. Like I said, its all natural. Just make sure you don’t hurt him or push too hard against him, and it will be just fine.Answer by Andie Rae
well i think that simple open-mouth (but not french) kissing is probably best for your first. a peck never really counts and since you have still nbk (never been kissed) frenching should wait. not forever, just wait until you get comfortable with the simple kissing before you start frenching. and remember, when your kissing dont just keep your arms at your sides. guys like to be touched even if its simply your hand on his arm or your arms around his neck.
i only had my first kiss a few months back so i cant give you a ton of advice or anything.i hope it goes well! and trust me, you’ll love it!Answer by ♥♥CherRy♥♥
go with the flow!Answer by Jake
If you said you are not ready, my advise for you is not to start a fire. Kissing in whatever form is only the beginning of the next step, and that is, necking. You are still very young, and naturally, curious. When you kiss, you will be aroused. It is but a human nature. When you are aroused, there is a big danger that you will forget yourself at the passion of the moment. Once you are carried by your passion, the next thing that will possibly happen is – you will submit and indulge in sexual intercourse. The feeling is good and fulfilling but the effect may destroy your future. If your priority is to get a higher education, I think it is better if you wait until such time when you are ready to enter into a serious relationship. Mind you, you need to have a lot of strength and self-discipline to be in control of yourself. Its not easy. You need a lot of prayer and guidance to be chase.And also, find out if your relationship with your boy friend is a true love. Good luck.Answer by enjoy_the_journey
Lord Zane is right…if you have to ask how to kiss…i don’t remember having to ask…just did it and learnt from how others do it…just be friends and let it develop from there…good luck!!Answer by G-pol
it’s instinct, you know what to do naturally..Answer by Soph =]
Well I didn’t know how to either but it just comes naturally 🙂Answer by Dragula
well, i think for a first kiss it should be a peck, but for something sweeter, do it slightly opened but no tongue. tongue is a little difficult at first. so just keep to the safe simple and sweet kiss for your first kiss. if this is just about your first kiss, hold onto him, he might be holding onto your waist, if you’re standing up. if you’re sitting down, you can still hold him but you could hold his hand and play with his fingers when you go in for the kiss.
me and my boyfriends first kiss was very short but very sweet. it was just an innocent peck. i was 14 then, 16 now. kisses always get better so don’t worry if it’s not as special cause it wasn’t a spectacular kiss the first time. the thing that makes it special is the person you do it with.
just don’t think about it too much. or you’ll panic and either not do it at all or have a very bad first kiss.
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