whats you’re definition of “making love” and “having sex”?

gdashizal: whats you’re definition of “making love” and “having sex”?
whats you’re perspective on the two?

Answers and Views:

Answer by flowingmoon
Full emotional and sensual; lust and hormones

Answer by pieninja
Sex is when you want to pleasure yourself. Making love is when you want to pleasure your partner =)

Answer by Petitecherry
I rather have sex than to make love. Im serious! I kinda hate teh whole “making love” thing. Dont get me wrong though im with the one i love, im not sleeping with everyone and anyone. Hes my first!

Answer by paramountbunny
Making love is more emotional. You can have sex with anyone, but without emotional attachment that’s all that it is.

Answer by Meh
I personally don’t use the term “making love” at all. However, if I did then I would probably use it to refer to sex I was having with someone I was in love with. I generally just say “having sex” or if I am feeling really immature, “doin’ it.”

Answer by Kristina
i think that making love is waaay more personal….aiming more to please the other person. having sex is just gettin into it for pleasure for yourself. both are great tho =)

Answer by Amy
making love is when you have sex with someone you love and care about. Having sex is something you do just to do and with whoever. When me and my b/f started to have sex he would call it making sex cuz he didn’t want to seem like a dork for saying making love. making sex is a great medium.

Answer by BIG BEN
making love is of course with the one that you truly love.
and having sex is just what it is, having a good time with the opposite sex with no ties. to me it’s a waste of time.
and I know when I say this people are going to say I’m a nut !!!! but that’s what it is to me.

Answer by Joseph M
The Definition of “Making Love” and “Having Sex” is expressing each others feelings,especially in bed together.And also wheather you’re with someone or not it’s really OKey,depending on what kind of person it is and what his/her personality is and personal preference.And regardless of you care about,and/or they care about you.True love,casual dating/sex,and/or so on.

Answer by ♥2eat_poo-C
I think its a guy and girl thing. Women prefer to say they’re “making♥love,” and guys prefer to say (when talking to other guys) “having♠sex,” unless its our wife, or GF (whom we intend to marry eventually). To say “having♠sex” means it was a one-night stand, just another notch on the bedpost. To say “making♥love” means it was a moment of bonding to reinforce each partners’ commitment to each other. If you don’t know the spade symbol, it means death, or dark sinister intentions. Its interesting how the slang term changes in every English-speaking country. In England, they say “shagging, ” which I didn’t know until the first Austin Powers movie came out in 97.

Answer by Miss B
It’s how you feel and whats in your heart that makes them different.

Answer by Laura
making love is a sick term some idiot came up with.

Answer by Sandman Fan
Making love has emotions attached to it and the fact that when you wake up that person is still going to be their in the morning with you holding them or them holding you and you express you’re thoughts during love making in a way no other could describe it but with sex its just screwing around with hardly no emotions attached and for some there’s still that feeling of being empty inside.

Answer by Mo
Making love is sex with your emotions and usually beautiful. Sex is nice to it is raw and animalistic. In a loving relationship you sometimes are making love and sometimes just having sex with the same person. IT all depends on mood.