How can i help my girlfriend to orgasm since she has never had one?

Matt M: How can i help my girlfriend to orgasm since she has never had one?
My gf has never had an orgasm and we’ve worked hard. She describes it as feeling good for a whole building up and then just disappearing as she gets closer and doesn’t feel good any more. Shes felt the same sort of result with other people and it frustrates her and drives her away from having sex. Can anyone give suggestions that have had a similar problem?

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Answer by Kevin S
finger her or go down on her

Answer by kcashxyz7
let her be on top. so she has more control

Answer by Me
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Answer by jess_akb.qorqeous.! <3
what i would do is go down on her… because if your having sex then as soon as she thinks shes just gunna have one, you could go off beat.
but if your going down on her.. then it will be alot easier to do

Answer by lheald86
the same thing happens to me almost everytime… finger her afterward… that will work. or just perform oral on her. make sure she is relaxed.that has a lot to do with it.

Answer by wendycat1969
She needs to masturbate more and figure out what feels good to her.

Answer by Miriam
She might be having tiny orgasms that she doesn’t recognize. But anyway, the best way for her to orgasm is really to do it on her own, without you even there. With a vibrator on her clitoris and good stimulating lubricant.

Answer by Dernk
Buy her a vibrator (prolly something bigger than you).

Answer by Animegirl13
Just be patient and wait until she’s ready.

Answer by jj69
your mouth and if u cant do it ill show you

Answer by ya472
You honestly cannot help her orgasm.

For women, it is a very personal thing. Most women have never actually experienced a true orgasm until their 40’s, when their hormones change and they have become happy with their own bodies and also have accepted masturbation as normal .

When a woman can give herself an orgasm, and often only after much work, will she ever experience one with a partner.

Answer by Know one
have her read this article

i’ve had her problem

this article helped a ton

Answer by Thomas M
Alright first things first is you and her need to relax a little bit. Set the mood with romantic music (smooth jazz is really good or some slow r&b music), light some candles and down off the lights. If you want, draw her a hot bath and bathe her while asking about her day and talking about things that are relaxing. Next, start off with some kissing an take it to the bedroom. This is where you should start massaging her seductively. A full body massage is great along with touching some of her sensitive areas (commonly: lower back, neck, inner thigh, breasts, and vaginal area). DO NOT FOCUS ONLY ON HER BREASTS AND VAGINA! The more playful and seductive you are the better. Also use massage oil, it is great. After this go down on her gently, do not go balls-to-the-wall like the porn flicks. Tease her by licking her inner thighs, then going closer to her vagina. Mix up your technics between her outer and inner lips, her clit, and going inside. Keep doing this and she should orgasm. Make sure she orgasms first and then do your think after. Finally, if she doesn’t you can always try again. Once you get her to orgasm she will want more. There are several books and movies that can help you master oral sex.