What’s the difference between being in love and loving someone?

: What’s the difference between being in love and loving someone, and which should be a relationship love?
I have been told I don’t love my boyfriend that I’m only in love with him. When I checked it out, being in love with someone is stronger emotionally than simply loving someone. My boyfriend is convinced he feels I show him no love yet he refuses to tell me why, but I do feel deep love for him. So I’m confused, what is the “right” love? What’s the difference between loving and being in love?

Answers and Views:

Answer by Ppk
Love can’t exist in any of two human beings , but something we call love and it is actually “like” can , and for some people it does mean allot !

Answer by memo Mostafa
he means show him a love to have sex with him

Answer by Javier Gonzalez
The real meaning of love, to be in love is the epitome of pureness, to want to live for the other person, to be ready to give everything, to be in love most of the times also means you can see the defects of the other person and don’t care at all, find that person perfect in his/her own way, the common given meaning given to love is actually just to feel attracted by how does the person seem or acts towards you, even if it sounds stupid, you fall in love without noticing it, even before finding that person even attractive.

“love” leads to this kind of questions, to fall in love leads to nothing but happiness (if corresponded of course)