tweird024: What is the best way to break off a friendship?
We have been friends for 10+ years now. But the past couple of years I just get annoyed with her more. All she does is bitch and moan about someone of something. And I’m sick of it. So what’s the best way to end the friendship?
Answers and Views:
Answer by California Girl
im the master of ditching negative people and so-called “friends”, it doesn’t matter how long you’ve been friends for. All you have to do, is drift away from her. Start by being “busy”, talk to her less and less but dont act mean or bitchy, just act normal but like you’re busy. Slowly distance yourself until you stop talking. Give her a text here & there, saying hey how are you blah blah, until, no more.
well
first you should tell her how you feel about her complaining. You have to know if she’s willing to stop doing this for your friendship. If it doesn’t work out, tell her honestly. tell her that if she can’ stop complaining so much, then she can’t be your friend because you don’t do that. say sorry and then just avoid her. that’s one less person you don’t like that you have to deal with.
hope that helps
KAnswer by Bianca D
just tell her what shes doing wrong and maybe shell fix it…….. its not worth losing a friend over esp. 10 YEARS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Answer by Terri Singer
I agree that being honest is the best way. Ten years is a long time to be friends.
I’ve come to learn that when something in someone else really bugs me, it’s something that I have in me too. It’s really hard to be honest, and take a good listen to see if you talk the same way. I had to do this too, so believe me when I say I know first hand how much courage it takes to be willing to take at look.
If you find you are negative also, you can then set yourself to change it. As you do, your friend will either change right along with you, or the relationship will dissolve on its own as more positive people show up in your life, which they will.
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