What are your thoughts me and a married co-worker flirting with each other if that is as far as it goes?

birthday dog: What are your thoughts me and a married co-worker flirting with each other if that is as far as it goes?
My co-worker is attracted to me and I’m attracted to her and we flirt at work sometimes but there is no intention by either of us in going further. Is that wrong?

Answers and Views:

Answer by box of rain
If you are without morals and respect for your wife and the vows you have taken, then I say go for it.

Answer by sarah k
no she’s married. Everybody flirts everybody. Just don’t go any further.

Answer by Chad
I say it’s fine, if it’s the same way you would act if your wife/gf was right next to you. (assuming you had one of course!)

Answer by johnnysunshine11
hell no. don’t overthink it and enjoy life. some answers here will have you think it’s a crime. yeah right…like nobody flirts with co-workers and friends when the occasion’s right.

Answer by htzzzn
Playing with fire that’s on you, and let your gf know so she can let you know her feelings about your flirting.

Answer by boogar
I personally wouldn’t like it… I’d be very upset. Because I know what is in human nature… one small itty bitty thing can lead to another; not even physically it can be a mental thing. You guys could start like each other more and more… that’s why it’s never good to start.

Answer by Trey from Plano
just hit it and quit it…. her man prolly not delivering the meat right

Answer by Alex P
If you could picture your wife doing the same with another man at work and you are fine with it, then go for it…

Answer by ruby
if you were married would you like it if your wife flirted with a co-worker that she was attracted to but always claimed that flirting was as far as it would go?

Answer by Monkey lover
if it’s only flirting and that’s as far as it goes then go for it but is her husband a jealous person cause then you wight want to back off Little

Answer by Lucy
“Over think it” as one answered!!! That’s funny!! If you have any class and professionalism you would NOT be flirting with a married women! Curb your feeling in the work place, leave it for Happy Hour!!

Answer by K D
Flirting is fun when it’s innocent and most people do it. Just don’t cross the line and you know exactly where it is. Don’t disrespect your co-workers marriage and don’t do anything that you wouldn’t want someone doing with your significant other.

Answer by lynelle d
Would you like your wife do the same thing to you?

If you answered is yes.then go for it.

Answer by mother of 3
Yes, you may not plan on it leading to anything but the fact is that it is a very slippery slope and it is easy to get caught up in. Be careful not to do something you will regret later.

Answer by shasa
if you have all the respect to your co-worker, please have respect to her being married. to you it is just a fling/flirting….but to spouses, it is called infidelity…if ever her hubby find out about this flirting….she will lost the trust of her husband and eventually leads to separation.
Remember: marriage comes from love…love comes from friendship….friendship comes from co-worker/neighbours/schoolmates etc…it all start with a flirt.

Answer by Ms. Angel..
You can answer your own question by asking yourself how would you feel if you wife was doing the same, and of course your wife would take it any further than flirting just like you. (yeah right)

Answer by withababyboy
“flirting is cheating’s ugly cousin” -Adam Sandler (Anger Management)

Answer by Momma V
There have been many people that I have been attracted to in the past and know as I’m typing this. That doesn’t make us bad people its a healthy thing to do as long as it doesn’t go any farther. If your in a relationship look at the one your attracted too and more times then not there are so many similar things about the two. So why change partners when you already have time invested in the one your with.
Try flirting with your mate in the same way and see if it puts the excitement back in your relationship. So no, I don’t think it is wrong. It keeps us on top of our games. I hope this helped you.