sister.. ?

Lena J: sister.. ?
My sister seriously..bug me. She told me a week ago she would forward some important stuff to me, but said she was busy at the time, I said no problem..so in a few days I still didn’t get it, so I called her, no answer, so I waited a few more days, call her. She said she is still too busy, and I ask her what she is doing, she said she is replying to friends on facebook and going to a party later, and that if I wanted it, I would have to come to her house and forward it myself.

Like seriously? Is it that hard (I didn’t tell her this, didn’t want any confrontation). All she has to do is send me one email..

She constantly does stuff like this, little things that just irk me. I try to talk to her but she blows up at me.

I don’t know how to talk to her. any advice?

Answers and Views:

Answer by Sammy
Yes leave her alone and wait on her to come to you.and she will.When she does do her the same way she does you.Sometimes we dont see what we are doing to others til its done to us.Good luck

Answer by Innocence
There is really not much you can do. You can’t control her life, and you can’t make her forward things to you. I know it’s not that hard – she is being selfish. But really, what can you do?

Next time she wants something, make her wait on hand and foot for you. Find some other way to get the stuff you need, and if she is really being that difficult. Then I guess you’ll have to go to her house and do it yourself.

Sometimes the only way to get things done is to do it yourself. It sucks, but it’s life.

Answer by ndm1958
It appears that she is the one in control of your relationship and she knows it and enjoys it. You need to not let her control you and push your buttons. Try getting yourself in a position where you don’t need her for anything and in time she should get the idea that as long as she is going to act this way your relationship is going to be on the rocks. The other way is to get her away from everyone and any technology and talk to her about this and tell her how much you want a good relationship with her. You need to put it in words that make it look like it not all her fault.