sister!!!!!!????

d: sister!!!!!!????
my sister is going out with her 1st boyfriend, and she told him that she was too scared to out wit him cuz she thinks shes gonna get hurt, so shes not going out with him anymore, he told me he loves her dearly and hes told me he feels awful, and i know he does, and he bought her really nice flowers and stuff! i feel terrible cuz i know he loves her and i know she loves him but im confused, and what can i do to get them back 2gether/???
he didnt do anything, and i can tell he really loves her alot, shes just scared hes gonna break up with her, but i think he loves her more than she loves him

Answers and Views:

Answer by devonmallblue
NOTHiNG. LET THEM WORK iT OUT.

Answer by purple_85
Try talking to your sister… Tell her if she wants to be single for the rest of her life? cause when your in a relationship most of the time you will get hurt.. its a risk you have to go through.. and you learn from it all the time…

Answer by trinite315
Tell your sister everything you know. Maybe she will feel different then.

Answer by Tabitha G
First of all if it’s her 1st boyfriend. Then it’s mostlikely not that serious. I know all of us teens(i’m assuming she is a teen) think it is. But odds are that it won’t last.

If you feel this seriously about helping them get back together then talk to your sister. Tell her that she’ll be safe with him. You’ll protect her, and won’t let anything happen to her. It helps to know that someone’s there to help you.

Also you can just remember that they are just teens and that it’s harmless. We don’t like to think that. But it is. Everytime that a teen says i love you…very few actually mean it and the ones that do, well there aren’t many.

If it’s bothering you that much, and you’re trying to help by talking to your sister doesn’t work. Then just let it run it’s course. Things happen for a reason. You’ll see. She’ll get through this. She may never want to date again. But believe me, the first time she sees a cute guy at the mall she’ll forget all about not wanting to date. And will try it all over again.

You don’t have to be cupid you know. Although you may feel like it’s your responisiblity to fix this for her. It’s not.

Good luck and i hope i helped.

Answer by adc
don’t do anything. if your sister doesn’t feel she needs a boyfriend, then don’t push her. explain it to him that she doesn’t want to get hurt and if he really likes her that he would wait for her.

ask him this,” why is she afraid you’ll hurt her,”
tell him he can ask her why she’s so afraid, what did he do??!!