Sex ……………….!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Sara: Sex ……………….!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
My Boyfriend and I had sex…for the first time….
My parents are going away for the weekend, he wants to sleep over while their gone…
I really think that now all he wants is more sex. What do I do!?

Answers and Views:

Answer by Anonymous
Tell him you don’t want to have sex.

Answer by There are no end users.
Yeah, you’re right. That’s what he wants. Use your best judgement.

Answer by pearlywhites
hmmm… well you tell him no and if he loves you he will respect that.

Answer by Boom_Baby(:
say you don’r want to . if he loves you he’ll wait again

Answer by confused
read the new twilight together

Answer by Take a run, with me.
Thats more then likly that..

tell him you can’t, do that..

you can’t go back against your parents…

Answer by Tim J
You think right….

My advice would be to turn him down on that offer for now… Make him work for it, and I promise he will only like you more.

Good Luck and I Hope this Helps..

Answer by sec
you tell him that you love for come over but if all he wants to do is get his hand in the cookie jar then he can look somewhere else, tell him no if you don’t want to do it

Answer by alphaboomer
Figure out what you want, and tell him

Answer by Robbiesgurl
tell him no, that is your body, you know what you want, and it is disrespectful to have him sleep over like that. Tell him that your parents asked the neighbors to keep an eye on you so he can’t

Answer by Cher
If you’re not ready then don’t continue to do it, but if you really feel that that’s all he wants from you then break up with him.

Answer by IndyGirl
Yes, he wants to be with you. If you don’t want to, say NO. You are the only one in charge of yourself, Sweetie. Go stay at a friend’s house if that makes you feel better.

Answer by KristaRen’ee
If that is all he wants than that isn’t the right boyfriend for you, You would probably want a boyfriend that acually cares about your feelings and should understand that if you tell him that I don’t want to do that tonight and just suggest any other FUN things to do. I also agree with the other persons suggestion too. JUST SAY NO.

Sincerely,
Krista Ren’ee Oakes

Answer by nightmusic
Don’t let him sleep over. Why did you have sex with him? Because you knew he wanted to and you’re afraid to lose him if you don’t? When are you dumb girls going to realize you don’t have to give your body away? Just because it’s all you see on t.v. and you’re being constantly brainwashed to think you have to do it. You don’t. Your body is yours. No one else has a right to it. Tell your boyfriend you need to cool it for awhile. And don’t see him for a few days. If he leaves you, you’re well rid of him. Find someone who likes you for you.

Answer by Sami
Well, the question is, do you WANT more? If you don’t, tell him that!
DOI

Answer by Robinson126
Since you already gave in for the first time willingly, no harm make love again for the second time.

Answer by MiZ_sExY_bAyBaY!
what do YOU think you should do

Answer by puppysyndrome
As long as you’re willing to give it up, he’s going to be sniffing around waiting to get it again! You’ve started something! It looks like you have 2 choices….keep doing it or say no more!

Answer by shawtiee
just say you don’t want to and if doesn’t respect that then he isn’t a really good boyfriend

Answer by Rebecca K
trust me i have been in your psotion before. tell him you don’t wanty to and be honest with him. you will respect yourself and thank yourself in the end. i promise. its not worth it.say u get pregnant this weekend…..u will wish u didn’t have sex him

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Answer by IcantTHINKofAname
IT’S VERY SIMPLE, If you want to have sex with him then let him sleep over one night, If you don’t want him to take get carried away with the idea your people are out of town then tell him no.

Answer by Natalie U
Well, if you want to KEEP your boyfriend, show him that you are interesting for more than just sex. Talk to him more about things he likes, study up on it, but don’t try to out-do him at it. Then he will hang around with you after bedtime is over.

Answer by ksunhdwfbh73
you could tell him no, or if its just the sex part that you are opposed to, then you can give him a “hand”. That way hes satisfied and you didn’t have sex.

Answer by ShadowRidgePantherGAALL
yum

Answer by bigbucks27
If it was his first time to then he probably just liked what he got and wants more. Eventually it will die down. You should be happy that you didn’t scare him a way with a poor preformance. However if your not in the mood and he is trying to force it on you this is rape and you should remove yourself from the situation.

Answer by HELLBOY
Life is short.

Sex is the most awesome thing in life.

2+2=4

Do the math.