PAREnTS????

hicktowntrackstar1293: PAREnTS????
ok well my dad and this chick were dating and then he knocked her up and we left there was 4 kids involved all girls now he recently got back together with her and they fight constantly with 5 kids 1 going on a year old what should i do all 5 of us kids are afraid we are gunna have to move away again HELP ps im 15

Answers and Views:

Answer by banche
Where’s your mom? Can you contact your mom or another family member? If it gets to bad talk to someone at your school.

Answer by bungle
It might be difficult for you to talk freely to your Dad-at 15 he may still see you as the child as find it hard to listen.Do you have another family member-aunt/uncle you could talk to? If so they may be willing to either talk with you and your Dad,or just with your Dad.Sounds to me like this is causing you a lot of worry.Even if you dont feel like letting your Dad know your feelings I think you still need someone outside the home to talk to.Sometimes just sharing your worries can help.

Answer by squekie0874
I am sorry you are having to go through this I wish life was easier for you. If you have a good relationship with your dad then try telling him how he scares you and the others when they argue so much. Have a family intervention with them both and have all the kids if they can tell them what they wish would happen between the two adults in the house if you can have a trusted adult friend or family member outside of the situation referee the meeting. I agree it must stop if they can’t get along then they must move on as much as you don’t want to do that it may be better for you and the others in the long run. Good Luck and all my best wishes are sent to you.

Answer by [email protected]
Dude, I know that this is not the answer you want, but think about your true mom and dad as being GOD. If left alone, you would do great, but the pressures put upon you by your Dad is tough. Just try to stay “Centered”, and understand that nothing is forever. What seems impossible now, will just be a distant memory. Try to get the other kids to group up and support each other. You may have to be your own parent which is uncool, but you can do it. Don’t think too much, just be.