How would a mother feel when her baby daughter is taken to Japan by her Japanese father with out her consent?

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How would a mother feel when her baby daughter is taken to Japan by her Japanese father with out her consent? A US court ordered the father to pay child support and gave him visitation rights. The father was able to get her a US passport to visit Canada (because he got permission from the US court), but he took her to Canada and than to Japan. The mother thinks she will never see her again, but knows that he is very good with children. The father is a citizen of Japan and the United States.

Answers and Views:

Answer by Hassan Zulkifal
she is not getting the kid back.. the japanese court system is shit when it comes to civil matters like these..

Answer by Brendan
That’s a really simple question regarding a highly complex, emotion-wrought set of circumstances. Before you ask “How would a mother feel,” you might want to start by posing questions about how the parents met, how the child was conceived, why the parents aren’t together, and how each parent thinks the child should be raised.

Without any context, wondering about how the mother feels is really one-sided. Ever wonder how the father might feel? If you ask the right questions, it might become evident that the father is doing what’s best for the child by taking it to Japan. Perhaps the mother has no way of supporting the child or is raising it in a poor, destructive manner.

Really, the most important question is “How would the child feel?” Stop thinking about the mother and open your mind to the whole picture.

Answer by Lord Sesshomaru Atheati Warlord
Personally, I would see both HAVING a Father AND going to Japan rather than the US to be a “Win-Win” scenario!

Answer by Kat
Honestly I dont care who it is that took my child to Japan…I would hunt them down and make sure they disapeared!!! I dont care if its the dad, president, anyone…you dont take your child to another COUNTRY without letting the childs other parent know, especially a mom! Moms will lie, cheat, steal, and kill for the child…dont people get that? Why would this “dad” be so dumb. Is he trying to get himself killed!!!