My husband wants me to look into having my clitoris removed or reduced, what should I tell him?

Gabi: My husband wants me to look into having my clitoris removed or reduced, what should I tell him?
Alright I took steroids for performance enhancement as a
Teenager and as a result I developed an enlarged clitoris that’s just short of three inches. My husband of four years has recently come to me suggesting I have it removed, he is slightly overweight and his member is about an inch soft so he feels inadequate, but he’s about five inches hard so I don’t see his problem. I don’t want to sacrifice my pleasure for his ego, but I also respect his concerns, what should I do?

Answers and Views:

Answer by BabeHart
If your post is true, that’s your call…it’s your body and if you have parts ‘reduced’ they typically cannot be re-enhanced if you don’t like the result…

His feelings of inadequacy are his issue (unless you say or do things to compound those feelings)…he’s free to speak to a counselor or therapist if needed…you shouldn’t have to alter your body to help him feel better about his, or vice versa…

Answer by Katie M
You said it yourself, it is his problem. He probably doesn’t like it that your organ is so close in size to his.

Answer by BungyBungy
Tell Mr.Pudge to love it, or leave it.

Answer by pat z
Tell him to get the end of his penis cut off first and then come talk to you about your clitoris.
I think that will end this conversation.

Answer by bearsmith90
that’s a big step cutting off the clit don’t do it. i actually think your clit would be very exciting and you enjoy having someone go down on you a lot right ? then no don’t do it.

Answer by Diamondbella
dont let your husband tell u what to do with your body.
He has a problem with himself that he needs to deal with and face.
You should tell him no and if he does not like it to bad its ur body and u are happy with it

Answer by Shesonelle
If you have the mutual trust as to discuss it, tell him how you feel. If you don’t have the trust I’d advise not to accept his suggestion at all as I believe if your really love someone you develope enough trust as to tell him your concerns.

I find it touching you’re considering this in order to make him feel better, but if the problem is he feelinadequatete maybe you should discuss why and make him feel he is not. It will also help you see his real position in the issue: Does he feel inadequate because his “inch soft” might prevent him from pleasing you, or does he feel inadeinadequateuse it prevents him from feeling he’s 100% “macho”?
If it’s really his ego being saved here, I’m not sure why it should go over your physical integrity and your pleasure. What if he’s not your last partner? What if next time his ego needs pumping up he wants you to add breasts of change your nose? And if he’s soft for being slightly overweight, why doesn’t he try to diet instead of suggesting you undergo surgery? You could even ask him whether he’ll be ready to undergo surgery if he developes erectile dysfunction.

That you’re considering his request shows you care for him and that you value his feelings. Try to see if he values yours too. Finding out his motives might help you decide whether it’s worth doing it or not. YOu might even come across a differen solution.

Answer by alyssa
its ur choice dont let him make that decision about ur body for u.