mARRIAGE???????

ar87kb04: mARRIAGE???????
SO ME AND MY FIANCE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR LIKE 7 YEARS NOW,WE HAVE TWO KIDS, LIVE TOGETHERF OR 3 YEARS,ARGUE OVER STUPID SHIT, BUT WE DO LOVE EACH OTHER..MY FAMILY HATES HIM FOR GOD KNOWS WHAT…SHOULD I MARRY HIM IN NOVEMBER???

Answers and Views:

Answer by Computer Jock
Let’s see….. knocks you up twice without bothering to marry you. I can’t imagine your family not liking him. Odd…..

If you love him and vice versa, go ahead and get married and make the kid thing more legitimate.

Answer by Boggle
Why bother? I think 7 years is the rule for common-law marraige. You are probably already married, but just don’t know about it. Congratulations!

Answer by cib0385
Marry him, if you think its right. Our opinion should matter the least to you. Everyone argues, its normal. But, if you truley love each other and want to make your relationship recognized by the legal system (marriage). Than go for it.

Answer by Susan P
All couples argue every now and then. If your still in love wih him, marry him. But if something is nagging at you follow yout gut istincts. Good luck.

Answer by P K
No..why screw up a messed up situation?

Answer by JacPot P
That’s almost as ridiculous and Tom and Katie going through pre-marital counseling AFTER they have a kid together. Hello?

Answer by Amanda
match made in heaven

Answer by Stareyes
This is your decision not your family’s. If you love him and think that you can spend the rest of your life with him, go ahead and marry him. Your family will come to accept it eventually.

Answer by slickcut
After 7 years and 2 kids time to get married ,if you love each other…

Answer by spud
Nah make it October.

Answer by blaak_grl
Laughing . . . You sound like me. DONT DO IT IF YOU ARE DOING FOR YOUR KIDS. Or, if you are trying to prove everyone else wrong. Otherwise one day you will get to a point after all the “stupid ****” and wonder what in the he** did I get married for. After the first child, his wanting to do right by you and your child should have kicked in. I went through the same thing. If you get married it should be because you both are READY TO FULLY COMMIT.