Ladies – what do men mean when they say, while making love, “who’s your daddy?”?

bradwelljackson: Ladies – what do men mean when they say, while making love, “who’s your daddy?”?
Why would they want to say such a thing? What does this mean? Doesn’t it offend you as a woman that they are invoking the image of your father while penetrating your inner sanctum?

Answers and Views:

Answer by James
It means they’ve watch too many movies and TV shows and only think in cliches.

Answer by Joe
They are not men of principle, especially if they’re having sex to begin with, without even being married to you. Women are also not schooled to avoid them.

Answer by Dezie
Wow….never had a guy say that to me. To be honest it would be a turn off not because of the reason you listed but just because it is such a weird thing to say.

Basically that man obviously means who is your boss or even more basically I can and am pleasing you. I rock and you should/are enjoying it.

If it bothers you, then tell him. Guys are brain dead and don’t think about these things or notice that they are bothering us unless we tell them directly. That and if it is affecting his “game” he will listen and modify.

Answer by Din Mor
Most women go for boyfriend that looks like their father? lol.

A friend of mine did this for shits and giggles, slapped her ass and said in a mature voice “Who’s your daddy!” she looked at him and said “Never again, Rune”.

I think he found it hilarious tho’.

Answer by chigrl22
what do men mean when they say, who’s your daddy? absolutely nothing, they are just being freaky. lol

Answer by Free spirit
I love how everyone flocks to the sexual-related questions before any others. LOL says alot about our society.

Answer by ccr
Sounds like the man wants the woman to regard him as someone in charge and herself as someone weaker and more helpless. He’s going to take care of her in every way, including sexually. He’s powerful, she’s dependent. That’s how I see it.

Answer by elizabeth
not all men do that, and for those that do, i think he wants to show you that he’s in charge and controls you. It’s s move to psychologically manipulate you into accepting that u r inferior.

such men may even use rape as a form punishing a woman.

Answer by Grannypoo pannies
Only mandingo can get away with that sheeeit.

Answer by jrockmadman
They’re obviously just curious.

Answer by Lucy
Well a lot of women call there partners ‘Daddy’, say if you’ve kids with your husband. Then him saying, ‘who’s your daddy’, becomes normal in that sense, because you’re so used to calling him dad/daddy when the kids are around.

If you’ve not kids with your partner its also said in the sense, ‘who’s your boss’. But more as a joke than anything else, dom/sub games. In some cultures and certain sections of society it’s more normal to say this kind of thing.

Answer by John
not to sure. however
i do recall a mate (he was the drummer) turning up to a girls home naked when she answered the door he said “who’s your daddy now”

Answer by Debbie
I really don’t know. I think it’s some kind of sexual dominance thing. I really have no idea what would possess a man to say something like this.

If my partner said this during intercourse, I would leave immediately and he wouldn’t be seeing me again.

Answer by Pam R
They mean sugar daddy