Is it common for men to need to finish by hand rather than coitus?

Yenelli: Is it common for men to need to finish by hand rather than coitus?
This is a disappointing discovery in a new relationship, and Iwonder how many couples face the prospect of a man needing manual manipulation because he cannot seem to “get there” inside a woman. Is this part of middle age?

Answers and Views:

Answer by whereRyou?
Yikes. It is not part of middle age that I am aware of. Perhaps he is not getting enough stimulation while inside. You can work with that, but I would ask him what the deal is. It is odd.

Answer by Baby Angel
Not sure if it has anything to do with middle age. We are in our 40’s and seem to have no problem. My husband does like to pull out and finish manually once in a while. I think he just likes to do it cause its like what they do in porn movies.

Answer by ClevelandNation C
id say divorce him. that way you can get some good chunk of money and find someone else younger and better

Answer by lilmomma86
maybe u dont go fast enoug, not ur fault.. its a job!! his hand can go as fast as hed like, which is FAST!! maybe try making noises, and rotating your hips, it will get him off faster. and if all else fails,. do it “doggy style”
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Answer by river08
This is not the case at our house either.

Answer by hanz2602
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Answer by broke-n-poor
well, sometimes a woman gets a little loose inside, like after a child is born, and yes it makes it difficult to do your duty inside of her. have her try excersises that tighten up muscles inside, and it really helps. I dont think it is middle age that causes this, could also be stress.

Answer by joemaintenance2
Does not sound normal. He should be able just like you to find some postions or ways that are more stimulating than others.

Answer by cyranonew
It happens, especially when the man has brought the woman to orgasm and then may feel that it is “over” for her. I kow it is disappointing for the woman, but that’s not something men can very well control. I would be patient about it; once your partner and you have become more comfortable with each other he may well be able to “let go” inside you.

Answer by Poppet
No, it isn’t part of middle age. This is something specific to your man.

Answer by Quasimodo1957
Hmmm….I’d have to say that this hasn’t ever been a problem at this end. Maybe sometimes just for variety alittle manual manipulation by both parties can certainally be fun but not on a regular basis.

Answer by Sidrey Doringcorth
maybe he still enjoys to work with his hand.

Answer by 😛
There is something wrong with him and it is NOT normal.
I have never heard of any man having this issue.

Answer by Flower
The relationship is new for him too, so these kinks still need time to work themselves out. He’s been single, so manual stimulation has been his only way for awhile. Be patient, and as the intimacy grows, the sex will improve and feel comfortable for both of you.

Answer by Taken and SoOoO Happy w/him….
never happened to me with anyone…my current partner is always happy to be in when he is getting there..but there are time where he wants to get out quick and go somewhere on my body, which i usually turn down cause i find that disrespectful to me in a way, but i think that is just the kinkyness inside of him not so much him needing to finsih manually,….Good luck!

Answer by csiders30
Middle age. Or prescription drugs can sometimes be the cause.

Answer by Patrick G
It would only happen if I didn’t want to be inside that woman. No way, maybe he is really gay. Go out and buy a man mask and see if it likes it doggie.