How to stop “falling in love”?

Future Rich Girl: How to stop “falling in love”?
I am happily married to a wonderful man! I love him dearly! The problem is, I am very emotional. Sometimes I have dreams or remember former lovers and feel incredible feelings of love. Also, sometimes I will meet men at college who share my love for art and suddenly feel a connection with them that is very powerful. How can I stop these feelings? I don’t like them and they make me feel guilty because I love my husband more than anything!

Answers and Views:

Answer by HisPrincess
Just remember why you are with the one you love.
No harm to look as long as you don’t touch.

Answer by Holly.x
whenever you feel these feelings just remember and concentrate how much you love your husband
and that should shake off any FEELINGS you have of other men
thats all they are feelings no-one could help them
you love your husband
and love is a choice aswell as a feeling:)

Answer by Dave
There’s no real way of stopping your emotional feelings. However, you may be able to put them under control. Every time you feel feelings of love towards someone else, think of how much you love your husband. However, how you’re feeling, it may not be exact to what you think. You just may have a lot in commen with the men at college. Also with you dreaming/remembering former loves, there’s nothing wrong with that. Obviously if they’ve made you happy or have done something which you’re doing in that moment, it’s bound to bring a smile to your face from that special moment. You’ve said that you love your husband more than anything, so there you go.

Good Luck.

Answer by I ♥ Mike
Your feelings are very small towards the other men compared to your husband. The other men you really don’t even know well. It is like judging a book based on its cover. The person you love inside and out is only your husband, and you must remember that and not stray from that.

If you knew he had feelings for other women, you would be hurt (even if he didn’t do anything). The idea of your partner looking at others and feeling things is not settling. I would be hurt if my significant other had feelings for other people.

Answer by anant
do you really love your husband or is he just another ‘connection’ that you married