How to not have an orgasm so quick during sex?

I: How to not have an orgasm so quick during sex?
I hear a lot of people mainly guys ask how to not have an orgasm so quick while having sex because they want it to last for a while. What you do suggest?

Also, what can they do to spice their sex lives up and how long should the sex be?

Answers and Views:

Answer by I’M BACK
I JUST LET THAT FIRST NUT BUST AND MOVE ON TO THE 2ND LAST A LOT LONGER.

Answer by orangelilly
get new man that can last longer haha

Answer by Alec
Use the stop and go method. Fuck until your almost to orgasm, then go back to foreplay for a minute or two and let the orgasm fade away. Rinse and repeat.

Answer by Nicole
masturbate before sex. and during sex when you feel like your about to orgasm. stop…. for a like a minute then start agian slower build up your speed… keep doing that until you cant hold it off any longer. finally when u do orgasm it will be much stronger :] spice it up with different positions. maybe a blinfold or something. just have fun together.

Answer by LOLjesus
You could be Jesus.

Answer by Chaz
Thinking of something else during sex helps. When I am about to come to an orgasm, I might start thinking of that episode of Family Guy we watched earlier and take my mind of of the situation. It helps.

Answer by Christina L
Here is one exercise that my boyfriend had tried during masturbation and it helps the situation so much when he is doing it with me! (not overnight, but gradually)

Stop during masturbation
Begin masturbating as normal. As you near orgasm, stop masturbating. Don’t go over the edge. Let your tension unwind. When you have relaxed enough, masturbate again until you feel the onset of orgasm, then stop. Repeat this for as long as you like. This is the simplest way to keep sex going. First you must learn to recognize pre-orgasm, and to stop immediately. Otherwise sex is over. Without the pre-orgasm, male orgasm control falls apart. Practice first on your own. You will learn quicker this way. Your concentration will not be broken by external diversions. Once you have practiced stopping at pre-orgasm on your own, try it during sex.

There are some other breathing techniques that can help in calming your excitement and get going with your performance. And remember, always divert your concentration elsewhere when you are about to come. To name a few: as fingering her, continue with your foreplay, going down on her or changing a new sex position.

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