Is ” making love” necessary in a relationship?

sugardady2699: Is ” making love” necessary in a relationship?
I have been with my significant other for almost 4 yrs. We are both 25yrs of age. We have arguments and small fights as any other normal couple would. Making love was not a problem for the first two yrs. There has been nothing going on this past year in the intimate/love making department. She says there’s nothing wrong. There has been no cheating, abuse or anything big that would cause for anything to go wrong. We help each other in any way we can. Everything is fine (according to the both of us) except for that. Is “not making love” a good reason to leave? Or am I being dumb?

Answers and Views:

Answer by Olivia K
hellz yes

im 15 and i did it- 4 times

Answer by Launch
If you are both fine with it, then why do you want to leave?

Personally, I think that “making love” is very important to a relationship, but sometimes you have periods when life gets in the way, or you just don’t feel like it. Have you tried talking to your partner about why this part has been missing? Perhaps there’s been a lack of spontaneity lately, or maybe you just need to shake it up a little, make it fun again.

Then again, perhaps you have just outgrown each other and are now better suited to be friends, it happens.

Think about what you want and then talk to your partner is my suggestion anyway.

Good luck 🙂