How to have intercourse with my wife for the 1st time?

topgun: How to have intercourse with my wife for the 1st time?
I got married recently. Been twenty days. We have fingered and had oral sex. However, when it comes to intercourse, I have always been postponing it for two kinds of fear, pre-ejaculation and hurting my wife. She is okay with having intercouse. I have just been postponing it. I just need a quick help. When do I put on the condom and how to enter her smoothly. Also, how to prevent pre ejaculation.

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Answer by la osita
Are you a virgin? Have you tried 2 fingers? it usually helps in opening the hole a little about it going in smoothly try a lubricated condom.

Answer by JacobAndDianne
umm the pre ejaculation i dont know about. i never had the problem. as for when you put it on. after it is hard and before you stick it in.(i dont know a better way to put it)…how to enter smoothly is just go slow. go slow the first couple times. after a bit you can speed up if you want. her muscles just need to bestretchedd down there. it only hurts them because you tear things when the muscle dontstretchh. good luck. dont worryinstinctss take over.

Answer by Danman
Don’t see a need for a condom if she is your wife. She should be on birth control and you should not worry about pre ejaculation because you will be married for a long time hopefully and there will be plenty of times to try again. Like 5 minutes after the first go. 🙂 Just be gentle and let it happen. You will be over your fears shortly after start.

Answer by Sony
is anyone going to actually answer this. u cant be serious, this is so lewd…dont tell me u dont know how to do it urself. ur not suppose to ask that kind of question here, this is marriage and divorce not a sex chat or porno chat ok….

Answer by Brooke
aww sweety, um ok first off,
as long as you don’t mind it would be better if about an hour before you make love, you masturbate. that will help with the pre-ejaculation.
than as the two of you get ready try Forplay. this is when you do the fingering and such. just play around and when you become erect have your wife slowly put on the condom with her hands or mouth, it should reach the base of your testicals and then if you slightly pull on it to leave room for movement and your cum.
As for hurting your wife, invest in some lube and spend some time “down there” playing. it will hurt the first couple of times but being newlyweds it will get better the more love you make.
Good luck on…things
and congrats on getting married!!

Answer by tom
Get a divorce, you have the wrong girl. This is not a joke. Thrust me on this you will be getting divorced, I can guarantee this. There is something very wrong with your relationship. You guys should be screwing night and day. But you are not, meaning there is practically no attraction between you two. Nothing really holding you guys together. therefore a very week bond. If she is not wet she is not turned on by you. Meaning she is not into you. Getting divorced now would be the best thing you could ever do. If you do not I 100% guarantee you will regret not doing this while it was very easy to do.

Answer by Emily E
YOU CANNOT PREVENT PRE CUM. Please use contraception if you want to avoid pregnancy. 😀

I don’t know about anything else