How long should a man take to get a woman to orgasm?

11: How long should a man take to get a woman to orgasm?
How long does it take for a woman to have an orgasm on a good day? Is it easier during intercourse or oral? Does fore play help?

Bonus: how long does it take a woman to reach orgasm when she’s by herself, on average?

Thanks!

Answers and Views:

Answer by Jake
Since a woman has control of her own body and the pace she does things, she can reach an orgasm quicker than one may be experienced with a significant other.

To speed up the process, foreplay is key if you are stimulating the clitoris and then followed by your choice or oral or intercourse. Take your time and maybe he’ll learn.

Answer by Ammarie
You can’t really give a time estimate.
But usually it happens quicker during intercourse as opposed to oral.
And yes foreplay can help a great deal.
Some women though may never actually experience a real orgasm.
Also if a women knows where her gspot is then she can get off pretty quickly.

Answer by Tara
yeah well normally id say if u concentrate on the clit, and i mean do not stop the movement u are doing on the clit, once u get going say with ur middle finger band in the middle of the click, small circular moverments with medium pressure (TOO HARD MAKES ME FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE WEIRD FEELIN) medium pressure is like hell yeah lol, anyway keep doin that say for around what… if ur doin it right… takes me about 2-3 mins. but also some woman do orgasm from the tongue on the clit, (i personally dont) i love it dont get me wrong, but no man can actually keep hard circular (or up and down) movements just below the clit, pushing into the clit, (like u running it over lol) coz obviously their tongue gets too tired and once u stop, the feelin goes and it ends up gettin 2 the point the orgasm goes bye byes. but try it, u neva know ur tongue might b hard as rock. hope ive helped x

Answer by Mano
i am going to anser the bonus question becasue other three answers are well written and correct –

i personally take no longer than few minutes to reach orgasm by all myself – if i skip a a day or two then i reach maybe in a minute or so – i can also have multiple at a time and many times but later i get tired –

every woman is different – in my case it doesn’t take long at all –

Answer by whitbyhill
in our case hubby gets me to my climax in about 11 mins.
that is by sucking my nipples and rubbing clitoris,
and putting a finger in, to give me something to work on as my hips gp up and down.

Answer by Megan
my man can make me me orgasm with a gentle touch of his hands in the right places. during sex i have multiple orgasms im not joking. with his tongue i scream the room down as with sex no jokes. i even orgasm in my sleep because of my man. but every womans different in that department

Answer by cookie_kaioo
Depends on the woman, and what stimulates her the most 🙂
And ofcourse foreplay helps! but the answer just goes back to: Relative depending on the girlwoman..

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Best of luck,
Cookie K