How important is oral sex in a relationship?

Liza: How important is oral sex in a relationship?
If you love a girl, but she doesn’t want to give you oral sex, would you dump her and find someone else?
Why do guys think oral sex is the most important element in a relationship?

Answers and Views:

Answer by Sweet Pinki
Oral sex can spice up your relationship and can be very useful for a closer bond. However many women have inhibitions and guilt associated with oral sex which has to be handled by her partner well. She needs to be convinced slowly rather than forcing oral sex on her. Obviously you cannot dump a girl just because she is unwilling to have oral sex on you.

Answer by Sx Raj
very imp

Answer by Kayla
oral sex is fun and entertaining for the guy, however if the girl does not feel comfortable with this decision, you should respect her feelings. if you really love her you would understand.

Answer by Fiction Chick
Oral sex is a good way to be intimate in a relationship and form a bond without going all the way but it is by no means “important” in the relationship. If you don’t want to have it, don’t. A man worth dating will be okay with that. If they’re making oral sex an important thing in a relationship, then he doesn’t really love you. Intimacy should never be important in a relationship. It should just be an extra bonus for two people who are completely in love.

Answer by Vitto
It all depends on the person. My good friend doesn’t enjoy it, he rather do the wild thing instead. As for me, I love it, just to start of the encounter with, and then get to doing the wild thing. I would never say any form of sex is the most important element in a relationship though. It should be based on love, not sex. I wouldn’t dump the girl but I would try to make it more enjoyable on her end some how and some way, possibly by getting her to open up as to why she won’t do it.

Answer by Emma Pell
if she doesn’t want to give you head- she doesn’t want to give you head. and if you dump her because she won’t, that’s just stupid.
guys think oral sex is important because the girl is pleasuring the guy, the girl doesn’t get any pleasure out of it and guys feel that the girl will do anything for them, even when they’re not benefiting from it..

Answer by Guest
only if guy ask for it and give me the same in return

Answer by Jannette Jeffreys
Oral sex is very important in a relationship because it grows your relationship more stronger. It is also one way of spicing up you love life. If I have a girlfriend who cant perform oral sex with me then I would definitely dump her.YES, because I want to have someone that is not afraid of anything and willing to go with me.

Answer by Lucky Singh
hi

Answer by Dublin
The only thing that matters is how you feel about it. Everyone elses opinions are irrelevant.

Answer by Chocolate milk fanatic
personally i dont think oral sex is necessary at all. gross. guys that think its important can go stick their thumb up their butt.

Answer by Sugarfree
As a woman, if my guy didn’t give me oral sex I’d think he was a wuss.
Now if I was a man and my girl wasn’t giving me oral sex it’d be a total turn-off. Oral sex feels really good for a guy and if my girlfriend wasn’t willing to do that and make me feel good I would think she didn’t care enough.
VERDICT: It’s very important, both ways.

Answer by flowers
well i’m a girl so i can’t answer on a would i dump her question…but personally i’m not a huge fan of oral sex…every now and again i will participate with my boyfriend but i’m not hugely keen on the idea of it. he is fine by this.

there are so many other things you can do other than oral sex so i think not giving it isn’t a huge thing and i think if someone were to dump another person because they wouldnt is extremly immature, and so the girl is probably best of without him anyway. you are with someone not for their oral skills but for personality, the fun you have with the person and being able to chat and talk to them. obviously sex and intimacy are important but there are so many different ways to be intimate that it doesnt really matter. 🙂

Answer by Alexis Hayzee
I am assuming you are a guy, so let me try to put this in a guy-code thing…not that I am good at guy-code lol… So every guy I have been with, they love oral sex because they love seeing the woman caressing and loving on his thing. I think it is the empowerment they feel from it. As a woman, I think that oral sex on a guy is very intimate which will bring us closer together. The emotional bond formed by giving oral sex is intense because the girl is giving of herself in a submissive position to her man…it is a very vulnerable spot.

Now as to your question, I do believe oral sex is very important. I often use this as a way to find out whether or not I am going to have full on sex with him or not. If it is really hot by me giving him oral sex, then I know the sex is going to be great. If I cannot give a guy oral sex, then I can’t be with him…that is just me. Then again, i love giving oral sex to men for the obvious reasons 😉

Answer by Boss
i wouldnt dump her if she doesnt like it then she dont like it. but it doesnt mean you cant play with her kitty