Whats the difference between “Making Love” and “SEX” when you’re with your Spouce or BF/GF?

yours_truly: Whats the difference between “Making Love” and “SEX” when you’re with your Spouce or BF/GF?
Does it make it different?

Please elucidate if you have done it with your life partner and also with a stranger and how was it different?

Answers and Views:

Answer by John S.
no difference they are the same thing…i think

Answer by lost
making love is just a nice way of saying having sex. no difference between bf/gf and spouse

Answer by jack
i would have a diffrent prespective…

sex is just physical …making love is both physical and metal …both mind and body should be in sync…sex is some thing u can have with any one …like one night stand…making love is some thing u do with you wife or gf/bf

Answer by Christina B
Usually with your b/f or spouse you are making love because both parties are really into it. But sometimes you may not feel entirely in the zone yet you are aware that your b/f or spouse really wants to so you go along for the ride so to speak. In that sort of instance you’re having sex not making love.

Answer by Matha
YES..THERE IS A DIFFERENCE….I have been with BF’s in the past. Now w/ my husband.
Sex is fun, good old fashion…woohoo…good time.kinda what you do as a teenager. a one night stand…or if you are with a partner and you can’t get in the door fast enough, taking each others clothes off, And never make it to the bedroom.
Making Love…is something special. Slow, passionate, romance, a true connection…and during it there is more to the moment then just sex and trying to climax. You take your time and really feel the other persons closeness. And in the end THE SEX is amazing.
Don’t get me wrong…. A good ol’ wham bam has a lot to offer and is fun with a partner. BUT…. I think in any GOOD & HEATHY relationship you should be able to have both types of sex . “fun sex” & “lovemaking” you will know when you have experienced love making. I’m sure many people never do.But..that my friend is the diffrence !!!

Answer by Frisky Me!!
Making love is when you have sexual Intercourse and you an you two really care about you and you two are in “Love”

Sex is like you know that person and you just want to have intercourse.

And a spouse is someone you are planning on marring but not engaged

Answer by Exosus
One is an expression of emotion, one is an expression of carnality. Making love is about love, sex is about need. Sex could be with anyone of equal prowess, truthfully, whereas making love is enhanced by, get this, love.

Sex, with a partner equally in tune with your body, is not necessarily better or worse than making love with a soulmate – its just different. It’s a bit more shallow, but that isn’t necessarily a bad thing.

Keep in mind, sex doesn’t have to be with a stranger, or a fuck-buddy. It just has to be more a matter of lust and need than love. It’s all in the mindset.