How do you know when you are ready to make love “have sex” with your boyfriend / girlfriend.?

M.G.: How do you know when you are ready to make love “have sex” with your boyfriend / girlfriend.?
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We love each other deeply. He think we should move on to the next step, because it would be both of our first times. We plan to spend the rest of our lives together. He said he will not ask me to do anything unless I want to. It is my decision. But I’m confused. I want to share that with him, but at the same time I am scared. What do I do? HELP!!!!

Answers and Views:

Answer by BLACK HYPNOTIST
when i see her for the first time and i deem her attractive. then i’m ready

Answer by Hondaluv
just wait till marriage it seems as thought sex may complicate things if you have it good now dont worry about it

Answer by Trevor P
wow 2 years hun it probably fell off but if not then dont wast any time get it on lol and us protection k lol

Answer by 1234happymeme
wow he sounds so sweet!!
awwwwwww make sure you keep this one!!!
but seriously i don’t think you should thing about when you will or how. just let it come naturally.
you may both just be lying there and it will happen by itself
you will know when your ready just let it happen by its self.

Answer by SwaggerLikeTron
i think you’ve got to be careful on that one seriously! if yal are both virgins then you shouldnt worry about being scared , just make sure you are both on the same page and you take it slow,Thats how me and my ex were, we dated for almost 2 yrs then had sex and after that its pretty much i wanted it all the time with her and she started getting mad because she felt that sex was all i ever wanted from her, so just be careful it doesnt get out of hand , and if you do start having sex make it special and romantic and dont do it so often you know? good luck

Answer by Life
well i dont know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!@!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Answer by ♥
Okay well, if you are scared you are not ready.

Answer by Lucky7
It would help to know how old the two of you are before trying to answer this question. It’s a very big decision, one that will change your relationship. Your right to be taking your time. I think that being scared about the first time is normal, but to me you don’t sound like your ready. Seems to me that you think it’s time because it’s been 2 years, not because you really want to take that next step. He sounds like a great guy who really cares about you (Lucky girl!) so keep talking to him. I think when your both ready, you’ll know it.