How do I help my husband with a masterbation addiction?

mortifiedin: How do I help my husband with a masterbation addiction?
I think my husband has a masterbation addiction. I don’t have a problem with porn or masterbation in general, but my husband has stopped being intamate with me. I know he looks at porn everyday, I don’t know how often he masterbates but my guess is at least several times a week. When we try to have sex he can not stay hard inside me and can only finishwith a hand or oral? We have talked many times over the last couple of years about how this make me feel. He will say he is sorry and that he will change, yet nothing changes. I don’t know what to do? I know my reaction to failed attempts at sex make him learry to try again. But I feel so ashamed and humilated and I can’t pretend I don’t. What does he need to do, and what can I do to help?

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Answer by nurseflowergirl
please try marriage counseling. if he wont go then you go. he may also need to see a md about a sex addiction. please remember, this is his problem, not yours, but be gentle and help guide him to where the both of you need to be in a healthy marriage.goodluck;)michele

Answer by HUGO & GABY
Well try with trow his playboy magazine,porn.

You as a women satisfy him you know how

sex , erotic things, thing that in porn do, getting nude most time in front of him even if you are not in bed.

I guess you can help him doing this.

Answer by toughnottobeacynic
Probably his latent homosexual tendencies are surfacing. Counseling won’t solve that problem. That’s between you and him and don’t waste years before you have that conversation.

Answer by zacwayneh
your husband could need serious help.
honestly, his addiction probably started as something that he thought he could handle, but now he cant.
know that he probably REALLY DOES want to quit, and his problem has absolutely NOTHING to do with you (in terms of him not finding you attractive, etc…)
give him some time
try to find out what he wants from you now
it could be something new and weird, but at this point, you are either going to have to meet him in the middle, or start looking for alternative ways to make yourself happy

Answer by jkels
Give him more sex, or just let him do this thing.

Answer by micromacroecoman
Don’t give him any

Answer by nisha
dont worry. young age it is common try to help him and conveince him at particular age ihe will be normal.
you must appreciate him not to go to other girls.

Answer by helpyoubeyondhelp
you can install netdog porn filter : https://www.netdogsoft.com on his computer.

Answer by sAm cbt
You should buy him a male chastity belt. That way, he’ll only get off when You unlock it. Just a thought, You should tie his hands behind his back or to the arms of a chair before You take it off him…
A number of stores sell them and here’s a web site for You….