What should a mother do when her husband got other women pregnant?

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What should a mother do when her husband got other women pregnant? He is a very good father to his children and does not want a divorce. He tell his wife that he will spend a lot of time with his other daughter, and he wants her to spend a lot of time with her have sisters (mothers children) that are born during the marriage.

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Answer by maccrew6
na na na na na na na

Answer by Talah
he doesn’t want a divorce? why does he get to choose? he already chose to screw around, i would say dump him, the kids will grow up with the idea it’s ok to cheat on the partner. get a lawyer and get rid of him fast.

Answer by Tucker
get really mad

Answer by Lady A
I personally would ruin his life. Take his house and as much of his income as the law allowed. I could never trust him again. What if I’d gotten AIDS from his selfish and stupid actions?

Answer by Hyacinth
how about a Lurena Bobbit?
It worked for her husband John wayne bobblt!!
He almost was a eunuch for life. tee hee

Answer by mii
WOW! That’s crazy, I’d leave the son of a bitch. Obviously, he doesn’t love you.

I’m so sorry for you.

Answer by earthgal_1964
D I V O R C E !!!

His trust has been broken and if you stay with him, it will give them impression you are ok with him cheating.

He can be a good Father from a different home. Yes, you need to teach your children that this action is Not acceptable in a marriage.

As long as he treats your child fairly and they are safe in his care, give him visitation rights so they can have a relationship with their half sibling. Even though what he did was wrong, don’t keep them from knowing their sibling. They will regret you for it if you do.

My children have half siblings. They never get to see them because their father is Not a good father. Thank God he is to yours!

But I’d consider the marriage Voided by his Infidelity. Get the divorce.

One more thing… Never talk bad about their father in front of them. You can explain the situation without being hateful. Remember, they probably still love him Dearly. Let them grow to their own opinion of him later as they grow up. ♥

Answer by Joyous
The innocent victims of this scenario are the children. The couple needs to get into counseling immediately and find a (hopefully) rational and intelligent professional to help them determine what they need to do to avoid the emotional and financial disaster of divorce wars and to protect the children.

No one on the outside is in a position to decide whether the marriage can be saved, or how to do it. The situation is bad, and hasty emotional decisions can make the pain last a lifetime. Get some help from a professional to figure out how to do damage control.

Answer by joe_fleeman
Either stay with him or divorce him.Your choice.

Answer by daisy dukes
i feel…no….get a new husband and he can pay child support and my kids will see there half sisters on his weekend visits

Answer by jfunk
“she” (you?) shouldnt probably bitchslap him upside the head.

Answer by tattoojunkie
i think it sounds like this moron wants his cake and eat it…i would suggest this poor lady who had her husband cheat on her dump him and divorce him as if she stays she will send the wrong message to her children, that this kind of behaviour is acceptable. it is not accelptable in anyway shape or form. plus he doesnt get a choice in being divorced, this lady needs to send a strong message to her children – i speak from experience my mum had this exact same situation…she dumped her husband divorced him and took 3 children and although it was a struggle she raised 3 children for years before she met my dad and had me and my little brother…..it is scary my mum has told me it was and she was scared out of her mind but she showed her children that she was NOT going to be taken for a ride by anyone. there is no reason that the husband cant spend just as much time with his children just coz their parents are not together anymore, she just needs to be unvindictative about allowing him access and remember that as much as an arse he is he is still their father and rember that this child that is to be born its not its fault and welcome them with open arms.