How can you create chemistry in a marriage?

0: How can you create chemistry in a marriage?
We had a teeny weeny bit of chemistry but now that has gone, and I am missing romance and lust and feeling something in intimate times. How can you create chemistry again?

Answers and Views:

Answer by zond7
you can’t you either have it or not.
sleeping around before getting married usually helps. sleeping around after getting married won’t hurt

Answer by peanut
you cant create chemistry
its supposed to happen naturaly

try somethng new/dareing in bed
could help

Answer by Manny Fresh
Communication is a must to keep the chemistry going. If you don’t feel comfortable talking with your significant other then there will never be chemistry. Also something new wile been intimate with your significant other will keep the romance going.

Answer by pumpkincat210
little love notes, kisses here and there, a cup of coffee or morning breakfast, shower together, sexy lingerie, a visit to the sex shop, doing it in odd places.

Answer by Joseph C
tell him that you love him everyday, kiss him and dress like you love him…..dress appropiate….but when your own express yourself woman =). cook great food……. buy him things he wanttt.. and if he is not still pleased, and he dosent say he loves you back, hes cheatingg. especially if you guys are younng…. but good luck.

Answer by Mr. X
H/W * WC = BC ———–the chemistry formula

H – Husband
W – Wife
WC – Without condo*
BC – Beautiful child

Answer by anchorbabby
well, its rather hard, but the things that replace the chemistry are usually better. a good way to get a little bit of romance though can be a romantic dinner both of you getting ready, some flirting, or just get plain drunk! haha just kidding, my ex and i lost our chemistry but we had a great relationship and friendship which i thought was worth it, some people arent that way though, and do thigns such as cheat

Answer by Ja Ma
if don’t already do so try kinky stuff or watching adult videos together and making a point of always being nice and polite to each other. we all have different triggers that excite our sexuality and you have to experiment around and find yours.

Answer by burke48186
I would say it starts with “you”, how bout sending him some flowers at work. Dress a little sexy, if you dress sexy, you’ll feel sexy, he’ll find you sexier, and i think this may start the chemistry.

Answer by MeOwwW..
Why the chemistry gone?
if it is there before and gone for some personal reason that you’re not telling us then, you need to fix the issue 1st.
if it was not there in the 1st place then there is nothing you can do.
A chemistry between human being comes naturally and so does feeling for the opposite sex.

It cannot be create. it like you cant make yourself eat something u dislike…. right?

Good luck 🙂

Answer by jude23_firstcorinthians9_19_23
there isn’t enough space in this box for a good answer but i will point you in the right Direction. Chip Ingram’s cd and book seres (love, sex and lasting relationships) is were i would start, I have learned a great deal about creating chemistry in a marriage from if,Chip Ingram has many resources for relationships.

Answer by Tim H
I think first off you have to be good friends so try doing the things he likes to do with him and learn about them. Then every now and again ask him to do things with you that you are interested in but ixnay the girly type stuff like shopping and spas because most guys wouldn’t want to be caught dead doing girly stuff. Next don’t wait for him to make the move that is the only problem that I have with my wife, is she doesn’t initiate the process or turn the switch on so to speak. Then attack him and he will be begging for more. if he’s not something else is wrong. Finally timing is everything just like when you first met. Don’t jump him shen is wore out, catch him when he’s energetic and in a good mood then suprice attack him. good luck to the both of you