How can my brother find his kids?

PhoebeBB: How can my brother find his kids?
I have a question about my brother finding his kids. Long story short my brothers ex keeps moving and now my brother has lost contact with her and his kids for a couple of years now. They didn’t split on bad terms or anything she is just really flaky and ended up getting a jealous new boyfriend blah blah blah. He’s paying child support but when he called the child support place they said they couldn’t give out her whereabouts and I’ve tried looking her up on the internet but I cant find her either. Does anyone have any suggestions on how my brother can find his kids? Thanks in advance.

Answers and Views:

Answer by girl_gone_quackers
hire a detective

Answer by Jamie M
Where I live, you cannot be paid child support, and deny the payor access to the children. If you deny access, the payor has the right to terminate payments.

If I was your brother, I would stop paying support but that would probably get him in trouble. So, I would be checkin with a lawyer pronto to see what his rights are. Also where I live, you cannot move the children away from the other parent over a certain distance without explicit permission. This of course depends on the custody arrangement, and only applies if it is joint. If his ex has sole custody, he might have a hard time making her stay close.

Tell him not to waste any time getting to a lawyer.

Answer by Tamara
First of all he needs to file for either contempt of court, or file for either custody or visitation. This is just not ok, and for your brother to allow this concerns me about his judgement as well. If there is a previous court order through the local court, and not just with child support she is to give the courts her address, if she doesn’t then it is contempt of court too.

Another thing is netdetective.com, it is a pay site, but I have experienced pretty good location with it.

Another thing you can do is hire a private investigator to do a search for you, it can be expensive but does work.

I would be more than happy to discuss this with you further you can message me at [email protected] or [email protected].

Answer by chevyman727
try the web site called “zaba serch” it helped me out when i was looking for a friend.

Answer by Nicholas M
you can file a federal search because those kids are his kids also go back to the divorce judge talk with him/her!!!!

Answer by freakboynv2000
stop paying child support and get a court order for her to disclose her whereabouts at all times.

Answer by peanut
Every parent has the right to know where the children are. Is there a reason why the child support place wont share that information?
He needs to take her to court. You dont need a lawyer for this. Go to the court house and file yourself. They should be able to get her where -a- bouts to send court papers to. He needs to stop in a talk to someone about it.

Answer by Ghost Writer
The reason child support won’t give up the info on their where-abouts is because they actually need a written request from him and then the mother needs to say whether or not it is ok(sad…not at all fair for a good dad, but how it is done nowadays). And if she tries to claim abuse, it can tie things up longer (or long enough to move away again).

Go to court and file whatever paperwork necessary. Make child support give you the info. Make them grant him the right to see his children.