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I’m just getting use to the idea of my brother being gay, now he wants me to meet his boyfriend, i don’t think I can handle that. what should I do?
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Answer by jj360
just treat his boyfriend a s your male friend. Don’t think much. They are not to blame, it is because of the genes. you are lucky because the bad genes fall on your brother.
Tell him that you are doing your best to accept him but that you’re just not ready for that right now.Answer by Sse [email protected]
just say hello, and smile… ask them out of the house.. to avoid any misbehaviour…Answer by PEGGY S
You should love and respect your brother enough to do the same thing he would do for you, if you asked him to meet a bf of yours. Be polite, and offer him soemthing to drink.. Ask him how they met, and what interests they have in common, etc..
Don’t make your brother feel bad about who he is. Being a gay man is caused from an abnormal amount of female hormones in the male body. All people have both male and female hormones. Women normally have more female hormones than male hormones, and Men vice versa. When the balance is not right, the person either become gay or they become a morphidite. Gay is much more common.
This is even happening in the wildlife world. It is not just a human situation. Read up on it.
They can not change what they are. That is what they became at birth. Do not put him down just because you were lucky enough to have a body that matches your feelings.
He is your brother. If he were considered handicapped, would you still love him and accept his life?
Answer by Chelsea**You’re making too much of a big deal out of it, why not just think of him as bringing one of his friends home? Would you be getting funny about things if he was bringing a girlfriend home?
I’m soryr if I’m sounding a bit harsh but I think you should just try and treat him as a normal friend of your brothers or the same way you’d treat a girlfriend that he brought home.
Keep in mind that they’ll both be pretty nervous and so will your parents too so go easy on them. It’ll be a hard thing for you all to go through.**Answer by Lucy
I think its great ur accepting ur brother, this is an adjustment for you and its great that you are being supportive. and the fact that he trusts you enough to introduce you 2 someone so special to him is great too, I would tell him ” it means a lot to me that you want me to meet (boyfriends name) tell me about him 1st.. Intrests, hobbies, fav movies….” then set a date lunch, dinner… whatever a week or two in the future to adjust,
Finally on the big day talk about those intrests you asked your bro about ( this will make for less akwardness / tension)
If your brother is affectionate with his BF casually joke, ” guys! Get a room! Or… hey! Your not giving me enough attention!! Listen to my story.” It will probably be a bit uncomferble at 1st but just now, the support you are giving him by being there means more to him than you could possibly know.
Hooray for you for being an awesome sis.
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