Claire =]: How can I get my boyfriend to make me orgasm?
My bf has an orgasm everytime, but he gets really frustrated that I never do and it makes him feel inadequate, like he can’t satisfy me.
I can give myself orgasms through masturbation, but I’ve never had one because of someone else.
I enjoy sex with my boyfriend, but I want to have an orgasm so that he doesn’t feel bad. What can I do?
Answers and Views:
Answer by my_mas0n
experiment. you need to guide him.tell him where to touch you.
tell him to go down on you that should work.Answer by oaklandfanatic22
masturbate a lot before you boy friend comes over so you can have an orgasm right when he sticks it inAnswer by A E
use socks as condomes so he doesn’t feel antyhingAnswer by somuchmore28
Some girls can not orgasm with sex. They may only get it from oral or fingers. If you are not comfortable with sex, you might be stopping the whole things all on your own.You have to be relaxed!Answer by Duckey
Maybe you give yourself too many, and that makes it more difficult for him to give you one?
Don’t give yourself an orgasm for a week, or a month. Maybe that would help.
Answer by Liam SWhen having sex try lifting your legs up as it gives more pleasure and increases the chance of having an orgasm.Answer by likesfemalefeet
Masturbate a little just before sex.Answer by Anthony Spears
If you can have an orgasm when you masturbate, then he can give you an orgasm. All you have to do is tell him what to do. Place his hands, tongue, penis, etc. where it needs to be, and show him all the moves in order for you to climax.Answer by bengito
get a new boy friend
hi i’m ben do you have any plans this weekend?
Answer by shawn cyou can always fake 1Answer by tony b
i would love to help you achieve orgasm.
i can tell you how.
relax.
dont make it the point of having sex
also change it up
show him what satisfies you
make it if you dont he doesntAnswer by sarcastichemist
Women usually take longer to “warm up” than guys do. Plenty of foreplay right before sex works wonders. See if he can get you really close before you have sex, that might do the trick.Answer by Max Julian
There’s a finger technique he could try on you.
He would take his pointer finger and middle finger, curl them upward slightly and insert them inside you.
With his free hand he presses slightly on your lower stomach while he moves these fingers inside and out of you.
Relax, you might feel like you’re about to piss when you orgasm but it’s NOT urine – it’s an orgasm waiting to happen.
Let it go and don’t worry if you squirt, this is what’s supposed to happen.
Enjoy.
Answer by sandozoral stimulation before and after he finishes, if you havent already.
or just in the middle of sex, stop and he can give you head or whatever.
a girl can not orgasm from sex, unless the clit is being rubbed on. i suggest you being on top if you want that.
Answer by missjenna522i am 24 years old. i am married, but before i was married, i had been around the block a few times. anyway, i have never ever once had an orgasm from sex…i mean just plain sex. for me to orgasm, i need to use one of those magic bullet things on my clitoris (while having sex). its the only way. ok well, technically, there is one other way, but its not thru regular sex, its thru oral sex. so nevermind.Answer by dalton
Let him discover your “G” spot, where you are sexually excited and aroused when touched, kissed or licked. Prolong foreplay, let him penetrate only when you’re really that hot and ready to explode!Answer by Stephanie M
Tell him what you like. If you need to, show him. If he’s really concerned about it, he’ll listen closely. Also, if you’ve never had one from anybody other than yourself, perhaps you need to let go a bit and trust him~
Hope that helps o.o
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The guy who suggested Socks is not far from wrong (rude,funny) It is very delicate a subject for young men because they 0gzm so fast that their ladies are left hanging hi&dry. A lot of foreplay and slick Tender finger massage /with oral /if he is so inclined (on you ). maybe chose a position(reverse cowgirl) where you can easily reach to assist him with a clitoral tutorial by holding his fingers in between your fingers.=and you set the pace and penetration.== you could masturbate with your self sitting on his chest.= or during the make out portion of the event find a bony protrusion and bump it till your close then let him go in while you finish(he will too)= School desk(doggy style with you over a kitchen chair) should allow him plenty of acces to your Vzone and you too for a varity that will let him LEARN to EARN your O0oh Mi G0tt.Answer by Frivolous
fake it maybe you get it.Answer by karpakarajan
it is true that males get orgasm faster than females. but many dont realise it. the solution foreplay. foreplay ending with finguring and stimulating the g-spot before culminating in actual intercourse is a solution. discuss with your partner. mutual understanding partnership is a successful partnership whether in life; family or business. god bless youAnswer by Daniel M
First rule of thumb, empty your heads. Make room for love making and love making only. Sex is a product of the mind not the body. The mind is what triggers all emotion. Untill you can do this, orgasms for you sweetheart are a long way off. Make forplay longer as this will help you to empty your heads and he should slow down and take his time to bring you to that most wonderful moment that we all love. Good luck lovers…!!!Answer by Anomoly
Most females cannot orgasm through penetration alone –
You and him putting more pressure and stress only makes things worse.
The good news is that you can have one when your by yourself, so you already know what to do…
the secret is that you need to stimulate your clitoris, there are many ways to do this but i would suggest you be on top and control the situation, you can use your hand, or he can use his, or you can use a toy… and stimulate yourself while he is penatrating you.
let him know when he is doing something that feels good.
take your time an relax… it takes practice.
Most girls can’t orgasm through just penetration. Funnest and simplest way to achieve one is to use your (or his!) fingers to stimulate your clit while he is inside you. Chances are he’ll find this very horny too. Make sure you start with loads of foreplay.Answer by Sexy Kate
what i would do is masterbate a little before and then have sex.
if that doesnt work then would suggest trying different positions.
-kk
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