How can I date my best friends sister without him caring?

Zack Bees: How can I date my best friends sister without him caring?
I am pretty much in love with this girl, about 5’3″ blonde, funny, anything you can imagine. The bad part is, her brother is one of my best friends. I don’t want to make things awkward between us, so if there anyway I can still bang out his sister without him caring that her and I are having a romantic and intimate relationship.

Answers and Views:

Answer by sri gajanana
It is a tough thing to do.

Answer by soccergirl13
he will care no matter what. but don’t mention the “banging out” he really wouldn’t like that

Answer by michael_parker71
First of all stop thinking of it as “bang out his sister”. Treat her with respect and show your friend that you will treat her with caring and respect and not interested in just “banging out his sister”……Sheesh!!

Answer by Mr.Q
Just give him his space.

Answer by Meh
If he read what you have written on here then he won’t like it, simple as that. Tone that bit down.

Answer by arizonamiss
Yep, there is a way you can date her without him caring.

It’s called being respectful towards her. “Banging her” is really shows your maturity level. You sound ridiculous saying it in a sentence along with the words “romantic and intimate relationship”.

Would you want someone like you dating your sister? BIG PICTURE

You apparently just want to “bang her” because if you really liked her enough to have a relationship you’d be able to talk to your friend about it. He probably knows that your a typical guy looking for one thing. Prove him wrong by being a decent person.

Answer by Lana T.
Treat her like gold. Treat her like you would treat your mother (which I hope is like gold) .He will be grateful. And so will she.

Answer by G’hound
That’s going to be a walking on eggshells relationship from hell. He will care a lot, worse than a father, and once you’re into it you won’t be able to split up either. It’s a lose/lose situation.

Answer by latin-spice84
The fact that you want to “bang out ” his sister shows that you probably will make him unconfortable dating her. Unless you want to piss over your friendship dont do it.

Answer by sportslover
Well you can’t choose who you fall in love with but anyway I think if you go about it the right way:

Not doing anything in front of him like snogging.(It might make him feel uncomfortable,imagine him kissing your sister.)
OR
Telling him about what your doing with her.

He’ll understand if he’s your best friend but to be honest it doesn’t make anything awkward because Im actually with my friends brother.<Known her for about 12 years.Known him 13 years. The only thing that does go pear shaped is if one day, not saying you will, break up with her.He might just stay out of it or he might try to kill you for breaking her heart.

Hope this helps x